Erections...

Is losing an erection during sex an issue for most men? Is there anything in particular that triggers this for you?

For those who don't have this issue, do you attribute it to anything in particular?

Published by cokokisses

6 years ago

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hellyeeeeah 11 months ago

That happens when I'm more focused on pleasuring her instead of my pleasure (but I'm pleased of the pleasure she gets !) and I'm getting hard again as soon as she takes care of me. I think that it comes and goes and I think it's very okay and not an issue at all as soon as I can keep pushing against her cervix ahah And obviously that can also happen when you're exhausted or drunk

fdj 4 years ago

Never ever had a problem, and still do not.

petering52 4 years ago

If other wank friend or fuk bud chats away , my brain is musing about these issues so penis goes down

ViktorBCN 5 years ago

to ViktorBCN : Also: booze. When I drink too much it's less likely for me to get rock hard.

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ViktorBCN 5 years ago

I might not get fully hard if I have sex with someone who seems to merely consent, but nothing more than that: if she's not really into it, I have trouble being into it as well. Been a minute since I last had that, but it's happened.

CharlieBrownOz 5 years ago

Damn, you sound just like me!

-Snap-Crotch-Beaver- 5 years ago

Rick [American husband] age 60 - Yes, I have been know to "flag" during sex - could be dehydration/too hot and sweaty - my mind wonders off and becomes disengaged - or the sensitivity is waning. Best thing I can do it 1) refocus and 2) more stimulation by taking my cock in hand and rubbing the head against her clit/pee hole/ and vaginal opening - just feeling her get soaked and my thumb knuckle hitting her clit in rapid succession will bring me right back to full attention! Then when I finally reenter inside of her, it is not long for me to deposit my seed at the bottom of her well.

austinjames2813 5 years ago

A few reasons... but would rather pm

pervert76 5 years ago

I’ve discovered that it happens more than you’d think. Since my wife and I started swinging we noticed that a very high percentage of the guys have a hard time performing. I believe that why a large number of couples get into it because he can’t satisfy her. Unfortunately even with the newness if it many guys still can’t get it up.

pookalooka 6 years ago

sometimes it happens. It is more frequent now that I am older. I hope a woman can understand that sometimes a man just needs a little more stimulation or different stimulation. It is not any kind of vote on the sexiness of the woman, just a male physical thing. The ideal woman would be willing to try different things, to communicate! Communication is critical and always leads to better understanding and a stronger relationship and to the "spiritual" connection that you crave that transcends hum drum physical sex

sibit1 6 years ago

lol I sometimes have to take a bathroom break and that kinda messes with my erection

fearuisce 6 years ago

Luckily for me that hasn’t happened yet but I would imagine health issues,anxiety and guilt if one is cheating on a partner can be the reason for losing ones erection

cokokisses Publisher 6 years ago

not at all. thank you for sharing! :)

swiss14 6 years ago

certainly happens from time to time