My FWB wants anal

Hi all - help!!!!!
I have a FWB (Friend with Benefit) who today told me he wanted to try anal sex - I am not against this however we have never done this before - will it hurt, should I do any 'prep' work, what would both of us expect? any advice is welcome please

Published by sassmo

4 years ago

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srh66 4 years ago

Enema first - be clean. Work on yourself privately for a bit while masturbating. See what you can take by yourself. Have a small dildo to try? There is no such thing as too much lube. Most important - it is OK to FAIL on the first attempt(s) but don't be discouraged by that. I can honestly tell you... my wife never had anal before me. Now years later she asks for nothing but anal sometimes. If done right, it should not be too painful at all but the pressure while being stimulated can result in some pretty intense orgasms - for both of you. Hope that helps and good luck

vegassep 4 years ago

How fun, should be fine as long as he is not overly large.

Kthu11u 4 years ago

fingers first nice and slow let your body get the idea that its not wrong and start to feel the experience slowly and let it work up from there

ntrstlr 4 years ago

to ntrstlr : What you really are doing when you practice with a plug is learning to get past your natural reflexes to reject anything going back up the other way. The first couple of times it will feel strange fighting against yourself, then soon that reflex will let up and it will become easy.

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ntrstlr 4 years ago

Yeah you should totally start with a butt plug. Ideally, get a trainer set of 3 sized plugs and work up to the second size (you probably won't need to worry about the biggest size, it is for "advanced" users). Just use lots of lube to work it in slowly, and once you feel comfortable getting it in and out, you're probably ready to start things slow with a patient partner.

sassmo Publisher 4 years ago

to Puredick29 : thank you xxx

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Puredick29 4 years ago

You should use an anal-plug before having sex. Put it inside and move it slowly in every direction. Prepare your asshole like that for 15 or 20 minutes. It makes it easier for you. Neverthless his cock is big, medium or small, the first time he should use a condom, enough lubrican and if he fucks you verrry soft and slowly, it should work pretty well ;) have fun!