(Ultra) Long Orgasm Denial
My boyfriend hasn't had any kind of orgasm since 2018.
Keeping a pet chaste for a few weeks, even a few months, is relatively easy. You build it up over time with lots of regular positive reinforcement, a little teasing here & there and the occasional mind blowing orgasm.
But what if those mind blowing orgasms were never on the cards? What if he has nothing to look forward to? That's when it becomes difficult.
In 2012, we began the journey towards a year of orgasm denial. It wasn't easy, but he made it and I let him cum in my mouth as a reward (something I *never* do for him). But it was a lot of hard work so for the next couple of years I let him cum every 3 months. I started throwing in ruined orgasms, but in 2015 I wanted to push his limits again. So I reduced his orgasm count to 3 (with 1 ruined). Then down to 2 (1 ruined) in 2016.
2017 was a tough year for us both for various reasons, so we fell back to one full orgasm every 3 months. Things picked up again and I wanted to push him once more, but I didn't want it to take years so I decided that he'd go a full year again and only have one orgasm in 2018. I told him as much from the beginning. I also told him just before he came that this next orgasm would be his last for a very, very long time. And he hasn't cum since.
So how do I keep him motivated?
It's not easy. I need to positively reinforce him all the time. I tell him how it's so rare for a sub to go so long without cumming. That he's such a good boy and that I'm so pleased with him. That he's a better person without orgasms. A better sub. A better cuck. I remind him of how empty he always feels after an orgasm, how it takes months before he feels in his happy place again and how I don't want to put him through all that again.
I've also stopped edging him. Before, I used to love teasing his cock. I'd bring him to the edge over and over again. He loves being edged, but there's a point where he switches from enjoying the ride to wanting to cum at all costs. I used to enjoy getting him to that point then denying him and locking his little dick back up. But you can't do that and keep someone permanently chaste. They'd lose their mind and end up making themselves cum with a vibrator or you'd have an accident and it would all be wasted.
So, every 3 months I unlock him and gently pleasure his cock without any kind of edging or stroking. It sounds frustrating, but it's really lovely and intimate. I unlock him and give him lots of positive reinforcement while watching his cock grow before my eyes. I hold it delicately. I kiss it softly, blow on it, run my nails over his balls. I let him enjoy a well deserved erection for 10-15 minutes before laying down with him & kissing him passionately as I hold his dick. I'll then let him enjoy being hard as I ride his face, too. Then I'll let him worship my feet. His dick gets so hard whilst doing that. Then back to more kissing as I run my nails up and down his cock then let it rest softly in my hands. I'll slowly let him relax until he's fully flaccid, when I'll lock his little dick back up again.
The other thing we do regularly is let him fuck me with a strapon cock. I'll let him wear a dildo then he gets to be the big guy for an hour or so. I'll get on my knees for him, tell him how big his dick is and how much I want it. I'll deepthroat it then let him fuck me however he wants. It's a bit of a mind fuck for him as he can't get hard or cum, but he loves it for that odd fleeting moment, just to imagine what a regular non-submissive guy gets to do.
So that's about it. We've managed to keep it up for a long time. Who knows how much longer? It really depends on real life. If things get hard then it's tough to keep this kind of thing up. But we shall see. We both certainly love the idea that he's already had his final ever orgasm...
Keeping a pet chaste for a few weeks, even a few months, is relatively easy. You build it up over time with lots of regular positive reinforcement, a little teasing here & there and the occasional mind blowing orgasm.
But what if those mind blowing orgasms were never on the cards? What if he has nothing to look forward to? That's when it becomes difficult.
In 2012, we began the journey towards a year of orgasm denial. It wasn't easy, but he made it and I let him cum in my mouth as a reward (something I *never* do for him). But it was a lot of hard work so for the next couple of years I let him cum every 3 months. I started throwing in ruined orgasms, but in 2015 I wanted to push his limits again. So I reduced his orgasm count to 3 (with 1 ruined). Then down to 2 (1 ruined) in 2016.
2017 was a tough year for us both for various reasons, so we fell back to one full orgasm every 3 months. Things picked up again and I wanted to push him once more, but I didn't want it to take years so I decided that he'd go a full year again and only have one orgasm in 2018. I told him as much from the beginning. I also told him just before he came that this next orgasm would be his last for a very, very long time. And he hasn't cum since.
So how do I keep him motivated?
It's not easy. I need to positively reinforce him all the time. I tell him how it's so rare for a sub to go so long without cumming. That he's such a good boy and that I'm so pleased with him. That he's a better person without orgasms. A better sub. A better cuck. I remind him of how empty he always feels after an orgasm, how it takes months before he feels in his happy place again and how I don't want to put him through all that again.
I've also stopped edging him. Before, I used to love teasing his cock. I'd bring him to the edge over and over again. He loves being edged, but there's a point where he switches from enjoying the ride to wanting to cum at all costs. I used to enjoy getting him to that point then denying him and locking his little dick back up. But you can't do that and keep someone permanently chaste. They'd lose their mind and end up making themselves cum with a vibrator or you'd have an accident and it would all be wasted.
So, every 3 months I unlock him and gently pleasure his cock without any kind of edging or stroking. It sounds frustrating, but it's really lovely and intimate. I unlock him and give him lots of positive reinforcement while watching his cock grow before my eyes. I hold it delicately. I kiss it softly, blow on it, run my nails over his balls. I let him enjoy a well deserved erection for 10-15 minutes before laying down with him & kissing him passionately as I hold his dick. I'll then let him enjoy being hard as I ride his face, too. Then I'll let him worship my feet. His dick gets so hard whilst doing that. Then back to more kissing as I run my nails up and down his cock then let it rest softly in my hands. I'll slowly let him relax until he's fully flaccid, when I'll lock his little dick back up again.
The other thing we do regularly is let him fuck me with a strapon cock. I'll let him wear a dildo then he gets to be the big guy for an hour or so. I'll get on my knees for him, tell him how big his dick is and how much I want it. I'll deepthroat it then let him fuck me however he wants. It's a bit of a mind fuck for him as he can't get hard or cum, but he loves it for that odd fleeting moment, just to imagine what a regular non-submissive guy gets to do.
So that's about it. We've managed to keep it up for a long time. Who knows how much longer? It really depends on real life. If things get hard then it's tough to keep this kind of thing up. But we shall see. We both certainly love the idea that he's already had his final ever orgasm...
4 years ago
