Dressing Uppers! Us "stay at home Cross Dress

So recently I got divorced (again) from another person that I let convince me to compromise who I am in the relationship. My new relationship is a better better, a bit more open. I get to lounge around the house in her presence dressed in my stockings and panties and she is okay with it....most of it.

So for you out there that are just now opening up, coming out, experimenting, here is what I like. I like thigh high stockings!!! but I want them up right at my ass cheeks. I like them that way on women too. These I have found to be the durable, sexy, comfy and reach my ass. I love these!! I'm about 5' 10" tall and am right at 196lbs I order the C-D size.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01253NOZC/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_image_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I also found these. These are tights but they are very strong, durable and tuck EVERYTHING in. They have a shiny gloss to them. I'm going to order a crotchless version of these because there is nothing like wearing stockings/tights while fucking or getting fucked!
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07ZZCFMXL/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
These are 1 size fits all. They stretch a lot and are high waisted which is a bit annoying but they stay up.
Cheers! And go get comfy in some stockings and panties and open a beer!