Shouldn't they just disappear?

I don't get it... when you have a one night stand with someone, aren't they supposed to disappear afterwards? Like, forever?

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only person whose one-night-stands either won't go away or keep popping up after quite some time...

Do they not understand the phrase "one and done"?

And the creepy thing is, the seem to remember every aspect of our meeting. Every sound, every position... I barely remember their names. And then they are stunned... STUNNED... that I have no interest in seeing them again.

Some assume I'm just sitting around waiting for them to text and don't understand when I don't remember who they are.

Maybe it's just me, but a night in a hotel with a hot tub is not the stuff dreams are made of... why would they think it was more than what it was?

Published by ktpinto

3 years ago

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ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to deltasquad09 : No probably about it, but they had their chance. :)

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deltasquad09 3 years ago

Probably because you’re great in the sack ?‍♂️?

ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

True, but they should enjoy it and move on to their real, mudane life. LOL!

ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to mjon : There should be a bunch of opportunities...

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mjon 3 years ago

to ktpinto : you'd think so ..... wouldn't ya

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ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to mjon : I'm sure you can find someone for that!

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ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

True, if they actually showed the proper attention for the latter, but they wait a few months and then "Hi!" out of the blue...

mjon 3 years ago

love to be a one and done kinda guy ... just a memory

ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to paul1248 : Nope

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paul1248 3 years ago

Lets get it on

ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to seanhere : My own experiences.

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seanhere 3 years ago

@ktpinto Do you speak based on a recent ONS or just in general.

crypt99x 3 years ago

to ktpinto : I see. My mistake.

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ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

I never wish for a commitment. If that's to happen, it happens naturally. Why push it?

ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to Inexperience : It's the latter that I believe.

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ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to crypt99x : I'm not talking about having a one night stand. I'm talking about those in my past who just appear.

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ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to sterlingrising69 : Your profile says how long you've been friends with me on here? I'm pretty sure it doesn't.

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sterlingrising69 3 years ago

to ktpinto : Not new if you check out my profile.

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Inexperience 3 years ago

to ktpinto : Being a man Sounds like theyre either shy or they've gone through options.

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crypt99x 3 years ago

I have offered. Lol

ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to sterlingrising69 : Thanks for the kind words! You must be new here though... I tend not to take other people's viewpoints into consideration when writing posts based on my many years of experience as a single woman. They're written with the very-small hope that some men/women/other may think twice before doing something rude or dumb...

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ktpinto Publisher 3 years ago

to Inexperience : That's very sweet of you to say! Many guys seem to believe they want a one night stand, but then months later try to hit me up again. That's a little less than casual. LOL!

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sterlingrising69 3 years ago

Maybe you're just too good in the sack! I've had some awesome dreams that were a night in a hotel room with a hot tub so keep in mind that view points are relative and people generally want more of a good thing...

Inexperience 3 years ago

You probably were the best theyve ever had. It happens. You are a cute girl id certainly want more than a one night stand even if it was casual but i think most men are afraid to be transparent with what they want.