Gaydar

My Gaydar isn't very effective. Even after fifteen years since I accepted I was homosexual . Fortunately this coincided with online dating, which has made meeting men straightforward. However, in my late teens and early twenties I was clueless when it came to men signaling their interest in me. One work colleague flirted with me for months but I still didn't cotton on. It took a female colleague to tell me he'd like to be more than friends. But at the time I was still working out my sexual identity , so nothing happened. Occasionally my Gaydar has successfully identified interest . My tip is very obvious : develop trust and expressinng your attraction becomes easy. You know that even if they turn you down they'll do so respectfully. It's all worth it in the end. Two men expressing their desire for each other is beautiful . To those who take the time to read my posts you have my appreciation... and affection. Bye for now.