Venturing a New Fantasy World

Now that Im in my thirties I have had the sexual experiences I wanted to have but also the chance to go around the entire buffet of men (all different races). I was single all throughout my twenties while living in the Pacific Northwest. This became the accidental single. I even had a sexual alter ego & loved every minute of it. Until the alter ego took a life of its own. The unexpected attention that followed living out my fantasy world. I knew how to use it to my advantage and it worked for me. When I relocated to my hometown of Las Vegas, NV I realized the sex scene does not live up to what the outside world may think. It is oversaturated with many egos not including mine! The minute I moved home I set my ego aside to have the opportunity to enjoy a new sexual journey in a land where I knew no one & no one knew me. But my excitement quickly turned into sour g****s. I noticed there are definitely quite a few bottoms in the valley. What I wasn't prepared for where the slew of bottoms with no standards whatsoever. Then, there are the Tops(majority where brothas) all asking if I' m generous. Meaning if I'm wiling to pay for the dick. No Sir, no I am not willing by the way. This is what the sex scene has turned into. What happened to the good ol' days when you can find someone on the party line or Yahoo chat. Get the addy on mapquest and bam. You can find out from there if the Cakes or D is even worth your time. Fastforward to 2022 & I almost find myself very bored with sexual encounters. Something I use to look forward to I now didnt even get excited about. Now I have been looking into new ways to turn myself on.