How I Changed My Hubby's Views On Sex With Ot
Both myself and my Husband were very traditional in regards to our relationship from when we began dating and on thru probably the first five years of our marriage. This spanned a time frame of about 10 years. We had an amazing sexual side to our relationship and were both in agreement that this is the way a marriage should be. My husband has always been an amazing lover and has never ceased putting my needs first, making certain that I was always fully satisfied before any of our love making sessions came to a close. In order to paint a vivid picture so that all who take the time to read this post are able to get a clear idea about the wheres what's whos why's and when's of myself solely from a sexual standpoint. Just so there are no misconceptions about all that transpired to create the fiercely sexual being I have come to be currently. There were ups and downs, good things and bad along my sexual journey. The same as it is for each adult who found their way from an innocent to the who they ultimately become.
For any of you who have read my other posts, you already know about my initial experience coming face to face with a fully nude older man as I watched him masturbate to completion as I was hiding and watching while I was so close I could have touched his cock if I reached out from where I hid. You also know that growing up my Mother supplemented her income by selling various substances. Meth amphetamine being the primary. Due to this fact, I lost my innocence sooner than most across many fronts. There were many different men with my Mom during these times, some were decent humans and some were scumbags. The man she married after she was divorced from my Father ****** me for several years until it all came to light and they split with him making his escape to another state far from us. Suffice it to say, once we entered that zone, it opened a can of worms for me that I chose not to deal with or properly heal from until I met my Husband.
I also feel the need to qualify the fact that my Husband is an amazing man who has helped me to get past most if not all of the trauma I experienced as a ***** and ********* and into adulthood. I will always put him first and I know I will be with him until death do us part! With that being said, we have allowed our marriage to evolve in a way that we can both expand the borders we set for ourselves sexually. Challenging each other to go as far as we can in regards to the aforementioned borders. All of which has made for one amazing sexual journey. We have each been in a position at various times to challenge the other to take certain risks we probably wowuld not have taken without the other challenging them to see where it would end up. All while maintaining what I would consider a relationship that was more honest, sincere as well as more intense than any of our peers. We were proud of this, why wouldn't we be? Experiencing many sexual high points and never having similar lows. All while truly loving one another and maintaining respect and mutual admiration.
Do not digest all I have spewed to this point and trick yourselves into thinking everything was always perfect and peachy. We put in the work to overcome many problems and conflicts. As with any relationship, there were problems. We just chose to work thru them as they came, never allowing any of the BS to win out. That was the key to it all. If you really think about all I have just explained it is a simple yet honorable approach to any relationship. Irregardless of any baggage you have or how shitty things might appear to be. If you work at it, eventually all of the negative falls away, leaving nothing but the good stuff!
To be continued...
For any of you who have read my other posts, you already know about my initial experience coming face to face with a fully nude older man as I watched him masturbate to completion as I was hiding and watching while I was so close I could have touched his cock if I reached out from where I hid. You also know that growing up my Mother supplemented her income by selling various substances. Meth amphetamine being the primary. Due to this fact, I lost my innocence sooner than most across many fronts. There were many different men with my Mom during these times, some were decent humans and some were scumbags. The man she married after she was divorced from my Father ****** me for several years until it all came to light and they split with him making his escape to another state far from us. Suffice it to say, once we entered that zone, it opened a can of worms for me that I chose not to deal with or properly heal from until I met my Husband.
I also feel the need to qualify the fact that my Husband is an amazing man who has helped me to get past most if not all of the trauma I experienced as a ***** and ********* and into adulthood. I will always put him first and I know I will be with him until death do us part! With that being said, we have allowed our marriage to evolve in a way that we can both expand the borders we set for ourselves sexually. Challenging each other to go as far as we can in regards to the aforementioned borders. All of which has made for one amazing sexual journey. We have each been in a position at various times to challenge the other to take certain risks we probably wowuld not have taken without the other challenging them to see where it would end up. All while maintaining what I would consider a relationship that was more honest, sincere as well as more intense than any of our peers. We were proud of this, why wouldn't we be? Experiencing many sexual high points and never having similar lows. All while truly loving one another and maintaining respect and mutual admiration.
Do not digest all I have spewed to this point and trick yourselves into thinking everything was always perfect and peachy. We put in the work to overcome many problems and conflicts. As with any relationship, there were problems. We just chose to work thru them as they came, never allowing any of the BS to win out. That was the key to it all. If you really think about all I have just explained it is a simple yet honorable approach to any relationship. Irregardless of any baggage you have or how shitty things might appear to be. If you work at it, eventually all of the negative falls away, leaving nothing but the good stuff!
To be continued...
1 year ago
