Nipple clamps
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What exactly do nipple clamps do?
What exactly do nipple clamps do?
There are a lot of reasons people might use nipple clamps, explains Taylor Sparks, founder of Organic Loven. Some people like the feeling of wearing clamps, some like the feeling of taking them off, and some like the look of the clamps or the act of using them on a partner.
And while nipple clamps are, as the name might cue you in, great for stimulating nipples, they’re also v good for multitasking. Carol Queen, PhD, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations, says clamps are *chef’s kiss* for hands-free nipple play. Investing in a pair means you or your partner can focus on other things, like oral sex or bringing different sex toys into the mix.
Ummm, do they hurt?
Before you panic about the pain, the feeling of wearing clamps isn't one-size-fits-all. In general, clamps attach directly to the nipple and increase sensation by forcing out the blood flow from the nipple, similar to the feeling of being pinched, explains Carmel Jones, a sex and relationships expert and founder of The Big Fling. The resulting feeling from the pinch feels dull—almost numb.
But! Depending on the type, you can experiment with the intensity of the clamp and the slack of the nipple chain, if there is one. Some people like more pain than others, which is why Dr. Grover always suggests newbies opt for adjustable clamps so they can slowly increase the intensity and be in charge of the sensation.
Regardless of what type of clamp you choose, Dr. Poppel says it's important to keep in mind a clamp that hurts before you orgasm might be extremely painful after you climax, so timing the removal is essential here. Additionally, Dr. Grover adds that nipple clamps can cause scarring if used too frequently or with extreme intensity, so again, go slow and make sure to give your nipples plenty of time to recover post play.
Is everyone using nipple clamps without me?
Maybe! Nipple clamps are, understandably, very popular in the BDSM and kink communities. Although the sensation of a nipple clamp might not be for everyone, Queen says it would feel "exciting and intense," rather than painful, for someone into BDSM.
But that doesn't mean their usage is limited just to the BDSM and kink communities. Jones advises people looking to try out clamps not to be misled into thinking that the toy is exclusively BDSM. "They're more widely used than you'd think," she says, and suggests doing more research with an open mind.
Lovehoney sex toy educator Ashley Cobb says if you’re someone who likes a little pain with your pleasure (think spanking or hair-pulling), you might like clamps. And the really good news here is that nipple clamps are great for all bodies, all genders, and all lifestyles. Sadie Allison, PhD, author of Tickle Your Fancy–A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure explains all nipples—no matter the gender—have the same amount of sensitive nerve endings.
And uh, just a lil tip from Dr. Allison: “For some cis-men, nipple play is an extremely pleasurable and preferred type of stimulation. For others, they may have overlooked this erogenous zone altogether, so it’s worth an introduction.”
Ok, fine, how do you use nipple clamps?
Before you just grab some clips and put them on, Dr. Poppel says you’ll want to prep the area for action. “First, get the skin nice and warm. Long-lasting foreplay is essential to good nipple play, torture, or stimulation, she says. “Massage the breast tissue (including the nipples), then softly begin to squeeze, suck, and worship the nipples.”
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Dr. Poppel says once your partner is sufficiently aroused, have them take a breath and clip the clamp onto the nipple before asking them to exhale. It might take a few moments for the nipples to respond to the clamp, so continue stimulating the area during the build. And when your partner is either on the brink of climax or in the midst of an orgasm, that’s the time to remove the clamps, says Dr. Allison. Not only will the blood flow rush back into the nipples, but nipple play also releases a chemical in the brain called oxytocin (the same chemical released during orgasms), so they'll be in for a super-concentrated rush of sensation.
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As for how long to actually keep the nipple clamps on, it all depends on tightness. Jones says you can leave on looser clamps for as long as 30 minutes, and tighter ones for up to 10 to 15 minutes.
What Is Orgasm Denial?
Cobb says it’s important for newbies to use adjustable clips because honestly, you'll probably want or need to adjust them during play. "When pressure fluctuates, the blood flow changes, and the nipples don't settle into a certain state," Jones says of adjusting the clamps' pressure. To try this on your own, she suggests tugging on the cord, stopping and starting in rhythm to keep your nipples on their toes, so to speak.
And if you’re using clamps with a partner, it’s essential to discuss your boundaries and limits as well as ensuring there’s enthusiastic consent around the clock. Cobb says using safe words or hands signals when exploring nipple play intensities is vital. “Having a safe word or signal in place will make it easier for your partner to know when to increase or decrease pressure.”
Are there different types of nipple clamps?
As you’re searching for the perfect nipple clamps, you’ve probably noticed there are lots of different types out there. Before just selecting the prettiest pair, there are a few components you’ll want to pay attention to. Sparks says people with sensitive skin should consider nickel-free options to avoid a potential reaction to the metal. And since clamps covered with silicone tips are typically less painful than bare metal clamps, they’re a good choice for first-timers.
Newbies will probably want to choose from tweezer, alligator, clover, magnetic, and vibrating options. Here are a few of our faves you can’t go wrong with:
If you’re new to nipple clamps, tweezer clamps—which literally look like tweezers with a small ring used for tightening—are probably your best bet. These rose gold beauties from Lovehoney are some of Cobb’s favorites for anyone just starting out since they’re adjustable (so you can vary up the intensity) and have rubber tips so the hard metal doesn’t press into your sensitive skin.
Dr. Poppel says you can also try clipping them on the penis, the inner thighs, and the sides of the torso, or opt for a weighted pair for some extra intense stimulation. Another fun option is to add ice or heat (like via hot wax) to the nipples once they’re clamped, suggests Sparks.
Ultimately, whether you keep things simple or venture into temperature play and some BDSM kinkery, nipple clamps are a must-have for any toy drawer.
What exactly do nipple clamps do?
What exactly do nipple clamps do?
There are a lot of reasons people might use nipple clamps, explains Taylor Sparks, founder of Organic Loven. Some people like the feeling of wearing clamps, some like the feeling of taking them off, and some like the look of the clamps or the act of using them on a partner.
And while nipple clamps are, as the name might cue you in, great for stimulating nipples, they’re also v good for multitasking. Carol Queen, PhD, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations, says clamps are *chef’s kiss* for hands-free nipple play. Investing in a pair means you or your partner can focus on other things, like oral sex or bringing different sex toys into the mix.
Ummm, do they hurt?
Before you panic about the pain, the feeling of wearing clamps isn't one-size-fits-all. In general, clamps attach directly to the nipple and increase sensation by forcing out the blood flow from the nipple, similar to the feeling of being pinched, explains Carmel Jones, a sex and relationships expert and founder of The Big Fling. The resulting feeling from the pinch feels dull—almost numb.
But! Depending on the type, you can experiment with the intensity of the clamp and the slack of the nipple chain, if there is one. Some people like more pain than others, which is why Dr. Grover always suggests newbies opt for adjustable clamps so they can slowly increase the intensity and be in charge of the sensation.
Regardless of what type of clamp you choose, Dr. Poppel says it's important to keep in mind a clamp that hurts before you orgasm might be extremely painful after you climax, so timing the removal is essential here. Additionally, Dr. Grover adds that nipple clamps can cause scarring if used too frequently or with extreme intensity, so again, go slow and make sure to give your nipples plenty of time to recover post play.
Is everyone using nipple clamps without me?
Maybe! Nipple clamps are, understandably, very popular in the BDSM and kink communities. Although the sensation of a nipple clamp might not be for everyone, Queen says it would feel "exciting and intense," rather than painful, for someone into BDSM.
But that doesn't mean their usage is limited just to the BDSM and kink communities. Jones advises people looking to try out clamps not to be misled into thinking that the toy is exclusively BDSM. "They're more widely used than you'd think," she says, and suggests doing more research with an open mind.
Lovehoney sex toy educator Ashley Cobb says if you’re someone who likes a little pain with your pleasure (think spanking or hair-pulling), you might like clamps. And the really good news here is that nipple clamps are great for all bodies, all genders, and all lifestyles. Sadie Allison, PhD, author of Tickle Your Fancy–A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure explains all nipples—no matter the gender—have the same amount of sensitive nerve endings.
And uh, just a lil tip from Dr. Allison: “For some cis-men, nipple play is an extremely pleasurable and preferred type of stimulation. For others, they may have overlooked this erogenous zone altogether, so it’s worth an introduction.”
Ok, fine, how do you use nipple clamps?
Before you just grab some clips and put them on, Dr. Poppel says you’ll want to prep the area for action. “First, get the skin nice and warm. Long-lasting foreplay is essential to good nipple play, torture, or stimulation, she says. “Massage the breast tissue (including the nipples), then softly begin to squeeze, suck, and worship the nipples.”
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Dr. Poppel says once your partner is sufficiently aroused, have them take a breath and clip the clamp onto the nipple before asking them to exhale. It might take a few moments for the nipples to respond to the clamp, so continue stimulating the area during the build. And when your partner is either on the brink of climax or in the midst of an orgasm, that’s the time to remove the clamps, says Dr. Allison. Not only will the blood flow rush back into the nipples, but nipple play also releases a chemical in the brain called oxytocin (the same chemical released during orgasms), so they'll be in for a super-concentrated rush of sensation.
Advertisement - Continue Reading Below
As for how long to actually keep the nipple clamps on, it all depends on tightness. Jones says you can leave on looser clamps for as long as 30 minutes, and tighter ones for up to 10 to 15 minutes.
What Is Orgasm Denial?
Cobb says it’s important for newbies to use adjustable clips because honestly, you'll probably want or need to adjust them during play. "When pressure fluctuates, the blood flow changes, and the nipples don't settle into a certain state," Jones says of adjusting the clamps' pressure. To try this on your own, she suggests tugging on the cord, stopping and starting in rhythm to keep your nipples on their toes, so to speak.
And if you’re using clamps with a partner, it’s essential to discuss your boundaries and limits as well as ensuring there’s enthusiastic consent around the clock. Cobb says using safe words or hands signals when exploring nipple play intensities is vital. “Having a safe word or signal in place will make it easier for your partner to know when to increase or decrease pressure.”
Are there different types of nipple clamps?
As you’re searching for the perfect nipple clamps, you’ve probably noticed there are lots of different types out there. Before just selecting the prettiest pair, there are a few components you’ll want to pay attention to. Sparks says people with sensitive skin should consider nickel-free options to avoid a potential reaction to the metal. And since clamps covered with silicone tips are typically less painful than bare metal clamps, they’re a good choice for first-timers.
Newbies will probably want to choose from tweezer, alligator, clover, magnetic, and vibrating options. Here are a few of our faves you can’t go wrong with:
If you’re new to nipple clamps, tweezer clamps—which literally look like tweezers with a small ring used for tightening—are probably your best bet. These rose gold beauties from Lovehoney are some of Cobb’s favorites for anyone just starting out since they’re adjustable (so you can vary up the intensity) and have rubber tips so the hard metal doesn’t press into your sensitive skin.
Dr. Poppel says you can also try clipping them on the penis, the inner thighs, and the sides of the torso, or opt for a weighted pair for some extra intense stimulation. Another fun option is to add ice or heat (like via hot wax) to the nipples once they’re clamped, suggests Sparks.
Ultimately, whether you keep things simple or venture into temperature play and some BDSM kinkery, nipple clamps are a must-have for any toy drawer.
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