All Good Things…

Hi Everyone.

Just received this message:

”Hi there!

Starting from January 6, 2025, the option to add dating photos will be removed to simplify and improve the dating experience. However, you can still upload your profile photo and additional photos of yourself using the Photo Upload.

Yours, xHamster team”

We can no longer alter our avatars unless we are registered creators.

So unless we are prepared to provide documentary evidence of our identities, we have no means to express ourselves visually. Something I have always held so special, and what I really enjoyed doing. I’ve lost my special galleries, the pictures on my page, my avatar and soon my “dating” photos.

So in the new year, I shall be leaving the site. I’ll probably just leave my page available, so that anyone can enjoy the videos and pictures that I’ve collected, rather than delete the account.

Extremely sad day, and I’m so sorry to all my friends. But I think it’s time for me to develop my life in some other ways. I’ve devoted a lot of it to activities on here.

It’s been wonderful, amazing and thrilling to meet such fantastic people, and upload such gorgeous pictures, to show and promote female (fe) Beauty.

I hope everyone understands, and I hope for nothing but happiness and love and good health and kindness and peace, for all gentle people.

Nicky. With Love.

Published by Nickyhere

7 months ago

Comments

BunnyUK51 4 months ago

please don't leave - you are a voice of sanity in this mad porn world

Bobblehat12 5 months ago

Yes, it was a sad day. I enjoyed putting up pictures in the dating section. Not with any real intent of dating, but I got such a thrill from posting pictures of me, and it did bring about some admirers 🤭. But what a palaver to go through now to post something. Hope you’re enjoying your time.

d-wills 6 months ago

Oh dear Nicky, this is so sad, you will be greatly missed, if moving to another platform please let us know, I for one will be joining you.

milroy 6 months ago

hi nicky sad to see you leave xham - however are you going to be on another site? if you are it will lessen the loss kind regards m xxx

naughtyminx2 6 months ago

The increasing restrictions are treating us like c******* and stopping us from connecting with each other in a meaningful way via pictures. This site has now become a half way house, where people initially meet and then go on to have fun and proper engagement elsewhere.Luckily, I am in contact with a number of my xham friends via g chat and Fetlife.

haiche 7 months ago

No dont go 💔🌹🌹🌹🌹i have messaged you xxx

Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to sinjones : You can’t imagine how much you mean to me, sinny. It’s going to be very very painful. Your writing is absolutely amazing, and you are a special person, to the max. Spanking you and Loving you has been, well….. You’re such the slut. My slut! ❤️💋😉💋❤️

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sinjones 7 months ago

You will forever hold a special place in my heart Hunni. Luv U. Always. ❤️🥺❤️

Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to pantheredesneiges : Thank you for understanding, Beautiful Chan 🌹💕

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pantheredesneiges 7 months ago

to Nickyhere : I share ! :heart:

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pantheredesneiges 7 months ago

to sweetii : Dear Julia, You have summed up the situation well and I share your trouble with this site, whose old characteristics that made it a unique site I regret. I wish you a Merry Christmas and a happy holiday season. :kiss:

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deuxfemmes 7 months ago

Directly relating to the abolition of dating photos: click on my 3rd dating photo as an expression of dislike for our host's picture restrictions! https://xhamster.com/users/deuxfemmes

Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to oldjacker67 : Thank you!! 🙏🙏💋

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oldjacker67 7 months ago

to Nickyhere : Merry Christmas to you too girl and a very very Happy New Year.

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Gruff53 7 months ago

to Nickyhere : Thank you so much, dear heart. You are a delectable gift.

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Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to tvslut69 : Thank you too, for your consideration of me. I wish you well, and a very Happy Christmas 🎄 💋

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tvslut69 7 months ago

to Nickyhere : Thank you for taking care of me and all of us. I wish you find your place on the internet where you can build your world from scratch. I hope you have a backup of your galleries and photos. :kiss: :heart:

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Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to tvslut69 : So am I. I so loved compiling galleries, and building on my page for everyone to enjoy. I had thousands of pictures up. Each one was edited specially. Anyway, that’s all gone now. The site may well be only for registered users at some stage. Then what? Take care 💋

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DrWhoWhatandWhere 7 months ago

to sweetii : Perfectly said Julia..despite the degr*ding quality of this site and the pleasure it once provided, I am happy for the good friends I have made over the many years. Posting of photos is truly what made this site more interactive and persona to a degree. I know the censorship is not just here but a porn site that restricts so much is very comical in a way...whe all have our varied reasons for being here and it is not for religious class

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Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to sweetii : Dearest Julia. Thank you very much for the message. You’re always such an inspiration to me. I always watch your ‘statuses’, and love your avatars. I didn’t know about the sinister things going on here, I must admit. There were certainly some nasty people around two or three years ago. But apart from some fabulous films and pictures here, there are some really genuine caring people here. The site turned out to be much more than I ever expected. You’re one of the very special ones. An amazingly positive woman, despite what may have happened to you. I hope you have a carefree Christmas, and excellent 2025. With my love 💋❤️💋

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cumhereoften 7 months ago

to Nickyhere : Row of hearts (you have to imagine, placing emojis is one of many skills I have not yet mastered here )

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sweetii 7 months ago

Dear Nicky, I can understand you very well. I feel the same way. Perhaps for other reasons too. This site has destroyed itself in recent years. Instead of doing something about the ab*se of features, they have simply k*lled everything that once made this site special. Stories, picture galleries, GIFs as avatar pictures and so on and so on. Completely nonsensical censorship of texts we write in PMs. And now, finally, they're also removing the upload of profile pictures for non "creators". One of the last ways to express ourself. Let them be happy with their “creators”. I won't give them my identity. But there are other reasons too. A good friend once said that this site is t o x i c. She is right. I've observed a few things over the last few weeks. What's so interesting about it? You realize that some users have built a network of lies around themselves, fake accounts, old “friends” returning with their 100th account, st*lkin, h*rassing and marking other friends as spammers. That is t*xic. It's sick. And the site is doing nothing about it. You say “it's time for me to develop my life in some other ways”. Yes, that's true. I should probably do that too. Let's see what 2025 brings. For me, 2024 was a difficult year. A year of challenges, a year of personal losses, but also a year with some beautiful moments. A year that made me stronger despite everything. Let's stay what we are, how we are, who we are. Wonderful, great, unique. Strong. Let's do what brings us joy, what enriches our lives. Let's stop what drags us down and weighs us down. I wish you and your family and friends a Merry Christmas and a wonderful time! Julia

tvslut69 7 months ago

I'm sad too. :cry:

Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to cumhereoften : Of course, dear Ross 💋

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cumhereoften 7 months ago

to Nickyhere : Dear Nicky,thank you for your well wishes,which I reciprocate,and ask you to grant another for me. A long time ago you offered me "official" friendship which I declined. I believed that my many anatomically based avatars ;) would not be welcomed by your followers if and when they appeared on your profile page :) Well avatars now being a thing of the past and your profile page about to be frozen in time (cue Dr. WHO theme) I'd quite like to be there. At least you ended with a beautiful avatar...I'm stuck in Christmas forever LOL

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Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to pantheredesneiges : I love you, Chan. You are such a very Special woman 💖🎁💕

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pantheredesneiges 7 months ago

to Nickyhere : I deeply agree with you ! :heart:

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Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to pantheredesneiges : I ALWAYS hope for that. And PEACE for everyone who suffers from the decisions of other people.

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pantheredesneiges 7 months ago

to Nickyhere : I wish you the same for 2025, lovely Nicky. Let's hope wisdom prevails next year !

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Nickyhere Publisher 7 months ago

to 69NaughtyFun69 : Absolutely wish for the same for you. Thank you SO much for your kind words! 💋

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