Ask her what she fantasizes about

My wife and I are older now and both of us have enjoyed the ride. I know her BFs enjoyed the ride! ? One thing I’ve learned (and shared with my wife): A smart man marries a woman other women call a “slut.” A woman who loves to fuck. These women are usually attractive, have great personalities, and they are not at all inhibited about nudity, sex and the perverted acts we all love. They’ll welcome the idea when hubby wants to share her with other men (and women!), seeing it as a chance to have even more orgasms. A smart hubby who marries such a woman will usually find all of his needs accommodated and his wife will be very, very happy and satisfied. If you can find such a woman who also makes good money, your life is going to be a good one! :-))))

A smart and loving husband asks his wife to articulate her fantasies as he encourages and welcomes her to act on them. Be loving, sincere and strategic - hold her in your arms and let her feel how erect you are telling her this and hearing what she wants to do with other men. Once she determines this isn't a ploy for you to have other women, she'll be anxious to move forward.

A husband has to somehow work up the nerve to tell his wife about his fantasies in a way that appeals to her. Do it BEFORE you marry her. A husband who cannot articulate his fantasies for his wife will be consigned to a life of jacking off while thinking about what could have been. Look up several defintions of "cuckold" before you decide to tell her that's what you want. And you're going to have to man up - and give up control of most of your sex life. Can you bring yourself to be less controlling and more accepting of what your wife wants and needs? Allow her to determine when and where you ejaculate?