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Confidence is Key

The other day, someone viewing one of my webcam shows was not pleased that I didn't want to read his private messages or go c2c with him in the MIDDLE OF MY SHOW, and he sent me a very rude message, in which he said I was "too full of myself."

I would like to address that, as an actual woman on this site.

Confidence is something that I have worked towards my whole life; it is not something I was born with. I know there are other girls out there that are thinner, have bigger tits, nicer asses, smaller noses, etc. I do not look like the beautiful fairy princess fuck toy you see on cam/in my videos when I first wake up in the morning. I have days that I feel gross, or at the very least not sexy. If I let those feelings be in charge of me, I would NEVER have made a profile here and I would definitely NEVER go on cam.

Plus who wants to watch a cam model that is uncomfortable with his/her body?

But confidence is something that I have learned to allow myself, and I won't lie, your positive comments and feedback help a ton. Consistently having one of the most popular cam rooms, having reached my friend limit, having over 90% thumbs up on almost all my videos- those are all gestures that not only make me feel sexy, they HELP NEGATE THE NEGATIVE THINGS THAT I, AND ALL WOMEN, TELL MYSELF/OURSELVES ON A DAILY BASIS.

So please, I guess the point of this is to say- if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. I could care less about the bad things you think of me, but other people may not be as resilient, and I would hope that the members of this community understand the strong connection between feeling safe, having confidence, and being more adventurous/willing to share.

Peace, love, and can you tell I went to UC Santa Cruz and am still a huge Nor-Cal hippie?
Published by krystal_geysers
11 years ago
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Joker6600
Joker6600 5 years ago
HOORAY
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aaronbi33
aaronbi33 6 years ago
You sound (and look) perfect in every way, including how you shrug off the negativity from needy men like that. ...And I'd bet you look beautiful when you first wake up, too ;) 
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lookintocum
lookintocum 6 years ago
Hes a moron
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jg50 8 years ago
So very well stated! You are very real. Exposing your vulnerability speaks to being genuine. I have three successful daughters who all took time to be confident and self assured. Thank you.
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keepit_gully
keepit_gully 9 years ago
I admire your positive outlook on life and your growth on self-confidence. misery loves company so there's no room for those kind of people in your life. Keep being who you are , You are a awesome, intelligent, beautiful and sexy woman.
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1stud4u 9 years ago
Positive positive...vibes to you and everyone always
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br0x24
Yeah, it's too bad really. Lots of desperate and sad dudes on here. Bet it's big turn off having to deal with them : ( Stay warm today.
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weonlyliveonce24 10 years ago
Wow good for you ma yeah people will always judge or have something to say and most of those negative Nancy's are jusohaters who have nothing better to do than critique Someone else's every move just look at like this ifthey have something to say you have to be doing something right so keep up the great work and keep the hater talking.i love you pics by the way
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Pornrabbit69 10 years ago
Ignore the negative people, there are millions of them and not worth your time at all. Be sexy and happy : ) I live in lakewood if you ever want to chat, maybe hangout : )
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spybuck
You go nor cali girl you look plenty hotttttt to me ♥
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poker5er
poker5er 10 years ago
It is so true as what you said, I for the life of me can never figure out how anyone can mistreat or be so rude to any woman or for that matter a human being. Confidence myself is an acquired event.
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TallOne420
TallOne420 10 years ago
Well said and I was down to two schools back in the day, knew I should've gone to Santa Cruz!!! lol
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DanielPortenio
DanielPortenio 10 years ago
The more I read you, the more I like you...
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letscem222
letscem222 10 years ago
Never seen your cam show (I'm sure it's lovely!), but this is good. :)
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horneyformilfs 10 years ago
fuck them hatas sexy u are gorgeous n we all miss your pics here !!!!!
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OC420guy
OC420guy 11 years ago
Well said Krystal. You know I feel similar sentiments... Now pardon me while I attempt to calmly explain to yet another pion that squirting is not pee FFS...
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andres_guardado
andres_guardado 11 years ago
you have more balls than some guys here! thanks for sharing :)
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kingbradford
kingbradford 11 years ago
Its to fucking hot in nor cal/bay area right now lol just saying
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laurrren
laurrren 11 years ago
to shutdowncorner : agreed.
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HotFinix
HotFinix 11 years ago
You tell 'em, girl! Wish that confidence search was more widely spread...
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shutdowncorner
shutdowncorner 11 years ago
Fuck those worthless haters... your an awesome model that does an awesome show !!
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