If you & your partner are not on Same side of

In Most cases it's the husband that introduces the wife to the prospect of swinging. Some wives are eager to try it and others never knew at all nor dare to think in fear of spouse & their marriage constraints.


OK! Most Men like you love the swinging lifestyle. they find it lots of fun, fulfilling and exciting. You want to dress up in your sexy clothes and find a couple to join you.


You have been trying to get your spouse into the lifestyle for years and each time they hesitant because they didn't think the lifestyle was for them. Well, then finally agreed to give it a try .


Your Partner should not feel pressurized that for so long that she may come to figure a draws up & think that this was the only way to satisfy you once and for all.

Rather you have to convince her Think positively that this concept brings a great time in your married life and you both should like it give her trust and full commitment to her relationship with you.




First of all, you must keep in mind that swinging is not for everyone. Before you try to convince your partner to swing you first need to look at yourself and ask yourself why you
want to swing. If the only reason you want to swing is so that you can " get change in your relationships ", then you shouldn't even bother. That is not what this lifestyle is about.





That is why communication is so important in a relationship in this lifestyle. It could be really embarrassing if you attended a club and a hot couple wants to hook up with you
two and one of you is an eager beaver and the other is not ready for it.
Sometimes a situation like this can cause more trouble then it's worth.



If swinging is something that you both want to do you may
not even need to convince your partner. They may already
be more than willing -- all you have to do is let them know
that you want to try it.


The first thing you need to do is talk about your fantasies.
Yes talk! I cannot stress how very important it is to communicate
with your partner. If they really love you they will listen.
Be open to answer any question that they may bring up and
be prepared to answer why you want to try swinging. Take
your time -- it takes time to become comfortable with the
whole idea. At one point you have to ask it, "What about
if we give it a try?"

After some time you can mention your fantasies to him/her
while talking some more about it. Maybe you can talk them
into going just to watch at first and just to meet people.
It may take several months, but if you can get your partner
turned on you are moving in the right direction.