Are Single males in - Swinger-Lifestyle-Sucessful.
Single males in the Lifestyle… Hmm… Where do we begin? It is very difficult to be a single male in the Lifestyle. While there are a handful of very well respected and popular single males in the Lifestyle, they face an uphill battle against a bad reputation, overpopulation, and general lack of interest.
Their bad reputation exists because many single males who decide to join the Lifestyle do so because they think it will be an easy way to have lots of ‘no-strings attached’ sex. They either don’t understand or don’t care about the social complexity and rules of the Lifestyle. Most Lifestyle Couples don’t allow single males, because those that do allow them end up packed with horny men who think they are at a meat market…
This usually ends up driving away the couples and females. Often these “meat market males” will join a Lifestyle website and immediately start sending unsolicited emails to couples and single females with lewd propositions and/or photos of their ‘goods’.
To the best of our knowledge that approach has NEVER worked for a single male. These types of males usually get frustrated when they get no ‘action’ and eventually give up on the Lifestyle… But just like a cockroach, they are usually replaced by two more.
It’s no wonder that respectable websites do have added features that allow couples to block all incoming messages from single males. This may sound harsh, but we are simply stating the facts about how these “bad apples” can spoil many people’s appetite for single males in the Lifestyle… That being said, it really makes you appreciate the few good apples.
The rare single males who are successful in the Lifestyle are the ones who are patient, respectful, polite, and never ever pushy or assuming. They are usually very active members of online Lifestyle communities, posting in forums and talking in the chat rooms so that other members can get to know their personality.
They understand that most people are not interested in single males, and are accepting of that. If a single male has gained the respect of the Lifestyle community he will eventually be contacted by the couples or single females who are interested in him. But it takes a lot of patience, grace & respect… All of which cannot be faked.
Their bad reputation exists because many single males who decide to join the Lifestyle do so because they think it will be an easy way to have lots of ‘no-strings attached’ sex. They either don’t understand or don’t care about the social complexity and rules of the Lifestyle. Most Lifestyle Couples don’t allow single males, because those that do allow them end up packed with horny men who think they are at a meat market…
This usually ends up driving away the couples and females. Often these “meat market males” will join a Lifestyle website and immediately start sending unsolicited emails to couples and single females with lewd propositions and/or photos of their ‘goods’.
To the best of our knowledge that approach has NEVER worked for a single male. These types of males usually get frustrated when they get no ‘action’ and eventually give up on the Lifestyle… But just like a cockroach, they are usually replaced by two more.
It’s no wonder that respectable websites do have added features that allow couples to block all incoming messages from single males. This may sound harsh, but we are simply stating the facts about how these “bad apples” can spoil many people’s appetite for single males in the Lifestyle… That being said, it really makes you appreciate the few good apples.
The rare single males who are successful in the Lifestyle are the ones who are patient, respectful, polite, and never ever pushy or assuming. They are usually very active members of online Lifestyle communities, posting in forums and talking in the chat rooms so that other members can get to know their personality.
They understand that most people are not interested in single males, and are accepting of that. If a single male has gained the respect of the Lifestyle community he will eventually be contacted by the couples or single females who are interested in him. But it takes a lot of patience, grace & respect… All of which cannot be faked.
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