“ Is Swinging? Same as Cheating..?"
“Swinging?… Isn’t that the same thing as cheating?“
Hogwash! Swinging is not cheating. If we may be so bold as to quote,
1) If you do something with someone else that you would not do if your partner was standing right next to you, it is cheating.
2) If you are going outside the relationship to get something that you should be getting inside the relationship, it is cheating.
3) If you are planning to use this as a tool to Defame, Divorce your in future partner, or Blackmail him/her for your selfish needs, it is cheating.
In the case of swingers these three things do not apply. Since the majority of swinging activities occur while the spouse is present, approving and enthusiastic,
Furthermore, since swinging is an activity that a couple experiences and enjoys together, the Lifestyle becomes part of their relationship, not something outside of it.
Anything you do with someone else behind your partner’s back and against their wishes is betrayal of trust.
Swingers eliminate lying, distrust and secrecy from their relationship. Everything that a person does in the Lifestyle is done openly, honestly and with the full consent and enthusiasm of their partner.
Otherwise, even the most experienced swinger would consider it cheating. Swingers detest cheaters and do not condone cheating of any kind.
You’re a swinger’s best pal !!!!
Hogwash! Swinging is not cheating. If we may be so bold as to quote,
1) If you do something with someone else that you would not do if your partner was standing right next to you, it is cheating.
2) If you are going outside the relationship to get something that you should be getting inside the relationship, it is cheating.
3) If you are planning to use this as a tool to Defame, Divorce your in future partner, or Blackmail him/her for your selfish needs, it is cheating.
In the case of swingers these three things do not apply. Since the majority of swinging activities occur while the spouse is present, approving and enthusiastic,
Furthermore, since swinging is an activity that a couple experiences and enjoys together, the Lifestyle becomes part of their relationship, not something outside of it.
Anything you do with someone else behind your partner’s back and against their wishes is betrayal of trust.
Swingers eliminate lying, distrust and secrecy from their relationship. Everything that a person does in the Lifestyle is done openly, honestly and with the full consent and enthusiasm of their partner.
Otherwise, even the most experienced swinger would consider it cheating. Swingers detest cheaters and do not condone cheating of any kind.
You’re a swinger’s best pal !!!!
11 years ago