My pledge to my beloved Mistress
i submit to the will of my Mistress and i'm bound to Her. i accept Her authority over me for my purpose is to serve, obey and please my Mistress. i'll work hard to give my Mistress control and turn my will over to Her. i know this is my duty and i desire to serve and please Her by doing so.
i accept that part of my training is the actual physical control of my behavior. i'll have no secret for my Mistress and i'll work hard to welcome this openness of body, mind and soul.
i'll always show respect for my Mistress. i'll find ways to serve Her and demonstrate my worth. The opportunity to please my Mistress is very important to me and i'll seek out ways to do so. My greatest satisfaction is realised when i know i've pleased my Mistress.
If i displease my Mitress i desire that She informs me so that i can correct my actions. There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel than when my Mistress isn't pleased with me. i'll accept the guidance i need to be put back on track, so that i'll be forgiven and once again be pleasing to Her.
When i'm not in the presence of my Mistress and i have choices to make, i'll decide them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance She has established for me.
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1) Communication with my Mistress is one of the most important aspects of my development. i won't hesitate when responding to my Mistress. i'm responsible for all words that i speak and i'll always listen with a strong interest to whatever my Mistress has to say. i won't swear or use bad language, disrespectful words or negative tones of voice; failure to abide by this rule may lead to me being disciplined.
2) i must be both specific and explicit in my speech. i'll give complete and accurate answers to each and every question that my Mistress asks of me. If i have to answer a request or a question negatively i'll give a full reason as to why this is.
3) i may seek clarification of any order from my Mistress, this won't be interpreted as a means of arguing or disagreeing. i'll obtain permission to speak, in order to carry out my allocated duties or rules, by presenting myself to my Mistress, tilting my head to one side and waiting for Her verbal "Yes,...?". In the presence of our families i'll use any form of address that seems most appropriate and may speak freely, but with respect. i must obtain permission to ask a question at all other times, by presenting myself before my Mistress and then asking "my Lady, please may i ask a question?"
4) i'll always address my Mistress as "my Lady" or "Mistress", will use "Please" and "Thank You" appropriately and respond "Yes, my Lady" to all commands. i'll use "my Lady" or "Mistress" at the beginning and end of every request. i must always give thanks to my Mistress for all i'm given immediately after receiving it, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to me by Her. This also includes any punishment and discipline that i may receive.
5) i'll willingly discuss any problems that disturb my mind with my Mistress. Any feeling of anger, fear or other counter-productive emotion will be expressed to my Mistress in order that She may find a way to correct these feelings. It's my duty to do so. These things can also be discussed during a "Free Talk Time", when i'm allowed to speak openly with my Mistress.
6) i must ask my Mistress' permission to leave Her presence for any reason and i'll ask my Mistress for permission to satisfy whatever the need i have. This includes getting food or drink, going to the bathroom, etc. Requests for water will always be granted, but all other requests will be permitted at the discretion of my Mistress. i must accept my Mistress' decision without question.
7) Food such as chocolate or other treats are given at my Mistress' discretion and i can't request them. My health is important to my Mistress and i'll eat properly. i'm allowed to eat as much as needed at mealtimes, in order to maintain a healthy weight. All eating between meals is restricted and dependent on my Mistress' permission.
8) In the presence of our families i shouldn't ask permission, but instead should inform my Mistress of what i plan to do; for example: "i'm just going to get a drink, would You like anything?", thus giving my Mistress the opportunity to reply "Actually could you do this first...?".
9) Requests must be specific and detailed; for example i shouldn't ask "my Lady, please may i go to the bathroom?', but rather "my Lady, please may i be excused to do a pee in toilet?"
10) i won't hesitate in my obedience to my Mistress and will respond quickly to all orders given. When told to perform a duty for my Mistress i'll do so without delay or question, unless i don't understand the meaning of the order. When ordered to fetch something i should fetch it as quickly as possible and drop to my knees at my Mistress' feet.
11) The needs of my Mistress must always come first before my own for they offer an opportunity to please Her. i must be attentive to the needs of my Mistress and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abilities and in the way She has shown me.
12) i'll gladly make my body available to my Mistress to be used as furniture: a footstool to rest Her weary feet and legs upon, my back or ass as Her table to eat off or rest Her drink on, or my hands to hold a book open for Her to read or a lamp for Her to see.
13) i'll be expected to also provide these services to any Dom(me) friends my Mistress invites to the house, unless They bring Their own slaves to attend to Their needs.
13) When my Mistress returns home from work i must present myself to Her, kneeling, as She enters the house, wait for a touch or verbal acknowledgment, then verbally welcome Her home. On entering a room my Mistress is in or when She enters a room i'm in, i must present myself to Her, preferably at Her feet if possible, in a standing position if She's standing or a kneeling position if She's sitting.
14) When i'm ready for bed, i'm then to present myself naked, kneeling by the side of the bed and request permission to get in. My Mistress may require to inspect me before granting this permission. On getting into bed i must first offer my Mistress my ass for my butt plug to be inserted and then my wrists for my cuffs to be put on and tied to the bedpost. The first thing i should say to my Mistress every morning, and the last thing i should say to Her every night, is "i'm Yours, my Lady".
15) On waking in the morning, after greeting my Mistress i must wait for my cuffs to be removed, then please Her pussy with my tongue until She cums or instructs me to stop. Only then i'm allowed to ask for my butt plug to be removed in order for me to take a shower. Sometimes my Mistress may wish me to remain with my hands cuffed together whilst i please Her; She will make this clear to me at the time.
16) When a meal is ready i'm to "Present" myself to my Mistress and inform Her of this fact. i'm then to follow Her to the table, kneeling next Her chair until instructed to sit on my own chair and wait for permission to eat.
17) When it's time for me to go to work i must present myself to my Mistress and ask permission to leave the house, wishing Her a good day before i go.
18) i'm responsible for the cleaning and tidying in the house, dusting, hoovering, laundry, ironing, cooking and washing-up. Cooking may be shared between my Mistress and me, with Her deciding which days She wishes to cook on. My Mistress will take care of the gardening, cars and motorbike maintenance, and DIY tasks, although i may be required to help Her with these.
19) Dinner should be served around 7:30pm if possible, washing-up must be done immediately after meals and bed must be done before i go to work or before 10:00am on weekends. All other chores can be done at a time of my own choosing, so long as they don't interfere with other arrangements and duties my Mistress requires of me. If i leave it too long before doing a chore, so that my Mistress has to prompt or remind me about it, i'll be disciplined.
20) All shopping will be done by both of us. i'm allowed to suggest things we buy but the final decision is down to my Mistress. i'm permitted to go shopping on my own, if i wish to and after obtaining the necessary permission from my Mistress.
21) Additional chores may be allocated by my Mistress at the beginning of the day, in which case i'm free to decide when i do them that day, or at specific times of the day to be completed immediately.
22) If i'm unable to complete my chores for any reason, such as illness or other circumstances, i must explain this to my Mistress and endeavour to catch up with my tasks as soon as possible.
23) i'm allowed to remain in contact with my loved ones and friends by phone calls, emails, visits and going out with them. i must inform my Mistress of any visits or arrangements to go out in good time, so my training and other duties can be rearranged if necessary.
24) i'm allowed to access to my laptop, internet and bondage chatrooms. i must ensure that using my laptop doesn't interfere with my other duties or requirements, and i'll bring my laptop to where my Mistress is, if possible, so i can be near Her whilst i'm using it. i'm allowed to serve other Dom(mes) in chatrooms; my Mistress will prefer i only serve Dom(mes) i know or i can trust. The previous restrictions still apply, such as not giving any personal pictures, email or specified informations about me or my Mistress. A failure to comply with these rules may lead to my computer access being taken away for a specified period of time.
25) Part of the conditions for being allowed to retain my computer privileges includes the keeping of a journal that will be used to record my thoughts and feelings on a regular basis. Although i'm aware that my Mistress will be reading the journal, i'll nonetheless endeavour to write freely, openly and honestly, so those things i'm unable to express verbally will be known by my Mistress. i won't be punished for anything i write in my journal.
26) i'm permitted to watch TV or DVDs with my Mistress in the evenings. i'm allowed to request watching specific programs which i enjoy.
27) i'm allowed to read, play video games and listen to music only after getting my Mistress' permission first. i'm allowed to take a walk or go into town, with permission of my Mistress.
28) i must always wear appealing and sexy clothing around my Mistress unless given permission to do otherwise. The clothing i wear will allow easy access to my pussy, ass and breast. i'll gladly accept whatever clothes my Mistress chooses for me to wear each day.
29) My basic attire in the presence of my Mistress while at home, is my slave/posture collar and my heavy chest harness, always locked in order to be secured. In public i'm to wear sexy or 'Fetish' clothing, without panties around my Mistress. If i go out without my Mistress i'm allowed to wear my 'Gothic' clothing preferably without panties. i'm to wear my 'Uniform' to work, and it's up to me whether i wear panties with it or not.
30) When i arrive home i'm to change into the outfit my Mistress chose for me in the morning, or to strip off and put on my slave attire. If my Mistress is in the house or entered with me, i will ask Her permission to go and get changed, otherwise this should be the first thing i do on entering the house.
31) i must remove all of my clothing in the way i've been taught when my Mistress commands of me to do so. When i remove clothing it must be folded neatly and placed in front of me just ahead of my feet or my knees. i'm to always be naked in bed, except when i must wear a specific outfit.
32) i must always keep the bathroom door fully open when i'm in there. If my Mistress enters the bathroom whilst i'm using it, i must continue with what i'm doing without feeling ashamed. Nothing about my body is to be hidden from Her, including toilet functions. i must ensure She has an unrestricted view of my actions.
33) i must take a shower every morning, but when i do so i must not take too long. i'm to remember that the shower isn't for my pleasure or indulgence, but to keep my body clean for my Mistress. If i take too long i'll be disciplined. To remind me of this: when i have finished washing i must rinse my entire body with only cold water for 1 minute on my back, 1 minute on my front and 1 minute on my pussy and ass. i'm not to try to cover my body with my arms and hands during this or thereafter. i must then present myself to my Mistress and may be required to be inspected. i must wait for permission to dry myself.
34) My hair should be washed 3 times a week, in the evenings so it will have enough time to dry properly. i'm allowed to request a bath or shower in the evening or i may be instructed to take one by my Mistress. i'm permitted to take longer in the bath than in the shower, because this is my opportunity to relax and unwind. i'm only to use products selected for me by my Mistress, to ensure that my skin is soft and smooth and i smell pleasing to Her. i must use Vitamin E cream on any areas of my body which are healing, in order to promote this process.
35) My pussy, legs, and underarms must be kept completely shaved and smooth so that nothing of me is hidden from view. My pussy and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good aroma at all times. i'm required to shave my legs and underarms at least twice a week, but my Mistress will shave my pussy Herself on Wednesday and Sunday evenings, unless other arrangements necessitate alternative times to be allocated. i'm to assume the "Vaginal Inspection" position on a chair in the bathroom and stay completely still while She shaves me, then i'll be rinsed with cold water in the shower. i should apply moisturising body lotion to my pussy and underarms daily, in order to keep them smooth and free from irritation.
36) i must always remember how pleased my Mistress is when i think of myself as sexy and showing off my assets. My behaviour must always display a sexual content however subtle. When i walk, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak or listen, i'll do so in a manner pleasing to my Mistress, with confidence and pride. i'll try to be as graceful and alluring as possible when moving and in positions, so my Mistress obtains pleasure from looking at me.
37) i'll make eye contact with my Mistress when speaking or when my Mistress speaks to me, for my eyes are a gift only for my Mistress, not to be given to the floor or anyone else. i'll also give Her eye contact when i laugh or smile, to make it clear i'm not laughing at Her. When i'm confused or asking a question, i'm to tilt my head to one side.
38) i'm not to cross my arms or legs, clench my hands closed, firmly shut my mouth or slouch in the house.
39) When kneeling to present an object to my Mistress, i must bow my head and raise both arms above my head, palms flat facing upwards and wait until She takes the offered object. In the case of any punishment tool, i must kiss it before offering to Her.
40) i must always sit on the floor next to my Mistress, unless given specific permission to sit on the sofa with Her or on my chair at the dining table. If sitting on the floor, i'll sit with my legs bent to one side, with my hands either side of me; when told to assume the "Rest Position" i'm permitted to sit in any way which is comfortable for me, so long as i don't obstruct my Mistress' view of my body. When sitting on a chair i'll sit up straight with my legs slightly apart and my palms face-up on the top of my thighs. When given permission to sit on the sofa with my Mistress i'm not expected to sit as i do on a chair normally, but am allowed to snuggle up with Her or sit over Her lap.
41) i'll learn all the positions my Mistress wants to teach me to the best of my abilities, will be prepared to take such positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that She, and others who may be present, will find most pleasing. i know that by using the slave positions i'm enabling my Mistress to better manage and use me. i must ensure that i'm never physically above my Mistress, such as standing when She's sitting or crawling across Her in bed, unless She has specifically instructed me to be.
42) When possible i'll place myself on my Mistress' left side while sitting at Her feet. i won't walk in front of my Mistress unless directed to do so. When walking i'll "Heel" or "Follow" to my Mistress' left side.
43) i'm to move into each position in a controlled, graceful manner, being aware of how i look to my Mistress. i'm to remain in each position until given other instruction.
44) i'm to close my legs during all positions whilst on my period, to indicate to my Mistress that my pussy is unavailable at that time. If told to "Present" to another Dom(me), i must place my hands palm-down on my thighs to indicate that my pussy and ass are not available for Their sexual use.
45) At the moment, the main positions i'm required to practice are: "Present", "Display", "Inspection" (breasts, vagina, anus, mouth), "Kneel up", "Surrender", "Rest position", "Spank Position", "Whip Position", "Follow", "Heel", "Open", "Kneel Forward", "Kneel Back" and "Supine". My Mistress will add to these positions as She sees fit. i'm to remember that the position for "Present" when ordered by my Mistress is different to that required when greeting Her or entering a room etc.
46) The "Safeword" given to me by my Mistress can be spoken at any time, even when i've been told to be silent. If i'm not able to verbalize it my Mistress will show me how i can express it. My Mistress doesn't see a "Safeword" as a limitation of Her authority, but as a means to ensure my safety. Because i'm granted a "Safeword" i'm expected to correctly use it. i can be punished if i attempt to use it to control or set limits on my Mistress' authority. It's a safety device only. If i'm gagged or otherwise unable to verbalize my Safeword, i'm required to use the "Two Grunts" method; to call it i'll grunt loudly twice in quick succession, repeatedly.
47) My Safeword is "R...". My Mistress will always stop immediately when i say this word. i may also if getting close to my limits say "Y...". My Mistress is under no obligation to stop at the "Y..." warning, but will judge how to use the information. She may choose to ease off or change activities, but this is solely up to Her. My Mistress will use the "Two Squeezes" method with me during scenes, when i'll find it difficult or distracting to reply to Her verbally - She'll take my hand and squeeze it twice to mean "Are you OK?", i'm expected to respond by squeezing Her hand twice to communicate "Yes my Lady, i'm OK". If my Mistress doesn't feel me return the squeezes after 2 attempts, She will stop the scene to check my well-being more thoroughly.
48) My Mistress will never expect me to have another W/woman's strapon in my pussy or ass, but She may ask me to be used by other Dom(mes), play with other slaves, serve at parties etc. i'm allowed to refuse these requests if i feel uncomfortable about what's being required of me.
49) i'll work on building up my tolerances to the level my Mistress needs me to have, being careful not to push myself further or faster than i'm ready to endure for Her, so that i may be able to expand my limitations. i'm aware that my Mistress will gradually challenge and push my limits, but only in specified sessions and after discussing with my Mistress exactly what's to happen.
50) For the time being my limits are: c***dren, a****ls, s**t, spitting and nettles. i'm allowed to add to these limits if necessary, for example if i experience something new and it causes a significant problem for me.
51) i'll endure whatever discipline or punishment my Mistress gives me, so i can become a better slave for Her. Details of all disciplines and punishments will be kept in a "Learning Folder" to serve as a reminder; a list of all items in the "Learning Folder" and all punishments received, will be kept on my journal.
52) i'll be disciplined if my Mistress feels i haven't done a task to the best of my ability or for additional matters which arise outside of the rules. Discipline won't be as painful as a punishment, but it will serve to remind me to try harder in the future. Being disciplined during daytime doesn't prevent me from sleeping in my Mistress' bed at night.
53) i'll be punished for breaking any of the rules set out here, any additional rules my Mistress may later impose, or for wilfully disobeying Her. i can expect punishments to be very harsh and very painful, but i'm assured of my Mistress' forgiveness as soon as i have endured the punishment allocated. i'm not allowed to sleep in my Mistress' bed on days it has been necessary to punish me, instead i'm to sleep on a mattress on the floor with my wrist cuffs tied to the leg of Her bed.
54) i'll thank my Mistress for the discipline and punishments i receive, specifying what i received and expressing the reason as to why i was given them.
55) My Safeword, verbal or otherwise, can't be used when i'm being punished. i must remember that punishment could never be very effective if i were able to control it. i must take it in full measure so that i'll focus on the correction of my behaviour for the long term. However, "Safewords" can be used when i'm being disciplined. My Mistress will let me know when the time has come that such treatment is necessary to correct my behaviour.
56) i'm responsible for keeping all my Mistress' equipment, tools and toys clean, tidy and in the correct places for when She next requires to use them. This rule includes my responsibility for keeping my Mistress' whips and canes in good condition.
57) i'll never touch my breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys in any manner where I could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without my Mistress' permission. Doing so will lead to a punishment.
58) i must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Mistress; i'm no longer allowed to ask permission to cum, but i must wait until my Mistress tells me to cum and then cum as quickly and hard as i can for Her. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that i don't take advantage of it. Failure to receive permission before cumming will cause me to endure a punishment my Mistress will put upon me. I'm permitted to cum whilst "Training".
59) My pussy, ass, and mouth will be used as my Mistress wishes for Her pleasure. i'll work hard to provide complete pleasure for Her.
60) My entire body, mind and soul now belong to my Mistress. i'm a pet slave and i must be available for Her use at all times. It's my Mistress' choice as to how my body will be used to please Her and i fully acknowledge that i no longer have ownership of my being.
By slave alex, SLRN 203-826-459
i accept that part of my training is the actual physical control of my behavior. i'll have no secret for my Mistress and i'll work hard to welcome this openness of body, mind and soul.
i'll always show respect for my Mistress. i'll find ways to serve Her and demonstrate my worth. The opportunity to please my Mistress is very important to me and i'll seek out ways to do so. My greatest satisfaction is realised when i know i've pleased my Mistress.
If i displease my Mitress i desire that She informs me so that i can correct my actions. There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel than when my Mistress isn't pleased with me. i'll accept the guidance i need to be put back on track, so that i'll be forgiven and once again be pleasing to Her.
When i'm not in the presence of my Mistress and i have choices to make, i'll decide them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance She has established for me.
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1) Communication with my Mistress is one of the most important aspects of my development. i won't hesitate when responding to my Mistress. i'm responsible for all words that i speak and i'll always listen with a strong interest to whatever my Mistress has to say. i won't swear or use bad language, disrespectful words or negative tones of voice; failure to abide by this rule may lead to me being disciplined.
2) i must be both specific and explicit in my speech. i'll give complete and accurate answers to each and every question that my Mistress asks of me. If i have to answer a request or a question negatively i'll give a full reason as to why this is.
3) i may seek clarification of any order from my Mistress, this won't be interpreted as a means of arguing or disagreeing. i'll obtain permission to speak, in order to carry out my allocated duties or rules, by presenting myself to my Mistress, tilting my head to one side and waiting for Her verbal "Yes,...?". In the presence of our families i'll use any form of address that seems most appropriate and may speak freely, but with respect. i must obtain permission to ask a question at all other times, by presenting myself before my Mistress and then asking "my Lady, please may i ask a question?"
4) i'll always address my Mistress as "my Lady" or "Mistress", will use "Please" and "Thank You" appropriately and respond "Yes, my Lady" to all commands. i'll use "my Lady" or "Mistress" at the beginning and end of every request. i must always give thanks to my Mistress for all i'm given immediately after receiving it, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to me by Her. This also includes any punishment and discipline that i may receive.
5) i'll willingly discuss any problems that disturb my mind with my Mistress. Any feeling of anger, fear or other counter-productive emotion will be expressed to my Mistress in order that She may find a way to correct these feelings. It's my duty to do so. These things can also be discussed during a "Free Talk Time", when i'm allowed to speak openly with my Mistress.
6) i must ask my Mistress' permission to leave Her presence for any reason and i'll ask my Mistress for permission to satisfy whatever the need i have. This includes getting food or drink, going to the bathroom, etc. Requests for water will always be granted, but all other requests will be permitted at the discretion of my Mistress. i must accept my Mistress' decision without question.
7) Food such as chocolate or other treats are given at my Mistress' discretion and i can't request them. My health is important to my Mistress and i'll eat properly. i'm allowed to eat as much as needed at mealtimes, in order to maintain a healthy weight. All eating between meals is restricted and dependent on my Mistress' permission.
8) In the presence of our families i shouldn't ask permission, but instead should inform my Mistress of what i plan to do; for example: "i'm just going to get a drink, would You like anything?", thus giving my Mistress the opportunity to reply "Actually could you do this first...?".
9) Requests must be specific and detailed; for example i shouldn't ask "my Lady, please may i go to the bathroom?', but rather "my Lady, please may i be excused to do a pee in toilet?"
10) i won't hesitate in my obedience to my Mistress and will respond quickly to all orders given. When told to perform a duty for my Mistress i'll do so without delay or question, unless i don't understand the meaning of the order. When ordered to fetch something i should fetch it as quickly as possible and drop to my knees at my Mistress' feet.
11) The needs of my Mistress must always come first before my own for they offer an opportunity to please Her. i must be attentive to the needs of my Mistress and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abilities and in the way She has shown me.
12) i'll gladly make my body available to my Mistress to be used as furniture: a footstool to rest Her weary feet and legs upon, my back or ass as Her table to eat off or rest Her drink on, or my hands to hold a book open for Her to read or a lamp for Her to see.
13) i'll be expected to also provide these services to any Dom(me) friends my Mistress invites to the house, unless They bring Their own slaves to attend to Their needs.
13) When my Mistress returns home from work i must present myself to Her, kneeling, as She enters the house, wait for a touch or verbal acknowledgment, then verbally welcome Her home. On entering a room my Mistress is in or when She enters a room i'm in, i must present myself to Her, preferably at Her feet if possible, in a standing position if She's standing or a kneeling position if She's sitting.
14) When i'm ready for bed, i'm then to present myself naked, kneeling by the side of the bed and request permission to get in. My Mistress may require to inspect me before granting this permission. On getting into bed i must first offer my Mistress my ass for my butt plug to be inserted and then my wrists for my cuffs to be put on and tied to the bedpost. The first thing i should say to my Mistress every morning, and the last thing i should say to Her every night, is "i'm Yours, my Lady".
15) On waking in the morning, after greeting my Mistress i must wait for my cuffs to be removed, then please Her pussy with my tongue until She cums or instructs me to stop. Only then i'm allowed to ask for my butt plug to be removed in order for me to take a shower. Sometimes my Mistress may wish me to remain with my hands cuffed together whilst i please Her; She will make this clear to me at the time.
16) When a meal is ready i'm to "Present" myself to my Mistress and inform Her of this fact. i'm then to follow Her to the table, kneeling next Her chair until instructed to sit on my own chair and wait for permission to eat.
17) When it's time for me to go to work i must present myself to my Mistress and ask permission to leave the house, wishing Her a good day before i go.
18) i'm responsible for the cleaning and tidying in the house, dusting, hoovering, laundry, ironing, cooking and washing-up. Cooking may be shared between my Mistress and me, with Her deciding which days She wishes to cook on. My Mistress will take care of the gardening, cars and motorbike maintenance, and DIY tasks, although i may be required to help Her with these.
19) Dinner should be served around 7:30pm if possible, washing-up must be done immediately after meals and bed must be done before i go to work or before 10:00am on weekends. All other chores can be done at a time of my own choosing, so long as they don't interfere with other arrangements and duties my Mistress requires of me. If i leave it too long before doing a chore, so that my Mistress has to prompt or remind me about it, i'll be disciplined.
20) All shopping will be done by both of us. i'm allowed to suggest things we buy but the final decision is down to my Mistress. i'm permitted to go shopping on my own, if i wish to and after obtaining the necessary permission from my Mistress.
21) Additional chores may be allocated by my Mistress at the beginning of the day, in which case i'm free to decide when i do them that day, or at specific times of the day to be completed immediately.
22) If i'm unable to complete my chores for any reason, such as illness or other circumstances, i must explain this to my Mistress and endeavour to catch up with my tasks as soon as possible.
23) i'm allowed to remain in contact with my loved ones and friends by phone calls, emails, visits and going out with them. i must inform my Mistress of any visits or arrangements to go out in good time, so my training and other duties can be rearranged if necessary.
24) i'm allowed to access to my laptop, internet and bondage chatrooms. i must ensure that using my laptop doesn't interfere with my other duties or requirements, and i'll bring my laptop to where my Mistress is, if possible, so i can be near Her whilst i'm using it. i'm allowed to serve other Dom(mes) in chatrooms; my Mistress will prefer i only serve Dom(mes) i know or i can trust. The previous restrictions still apply, such as not giving any personal pictures, email or specified informations about me or my Mistress. A failure to comply with these rules may lead to my computer access being taken away for a specified period of time.
25) Part of the conditions for being allowed to retain my computer privileges includes the keeping of a journal that will be used to record my thoughts and feelings on a regular basis. Although i'm aware that my Mistress will be reading the journal, i'll nonetheless endeavour to write freely, openly and honestly, so those things i'm unable to express verbally will be known by my Mistress. i won't be punished for anything i write in my journal.
26) i'm permitted to watch TV or DVDs with my Mistress in the evenings. i'm allowed to request watching specific programs which i enjoy.
27) i'm allowed to read, play video games and listen to music only after getting my Mistress' permission first. i'm allowed to take a walk or go into town, with permission of my Mistress.
28) i must always wear appealing and sexy clothing around my Mistress unless given permission to do otherwise. The clothing i wear will allow easy access to my pussy, ass and breast. i'll gladly accept whatever clothes my Mistress chooses for me to wear each day.
29) My basic attire in the presence of my Mistress while at home, is my slave/posture collar and my heavy chest harness, always locked in order to be secured. In public i'm to wear sexy or 'Fetish' clothing, without panties around my Mistress. If i go out without my Mistress i'm allowed to wear my 'Gothic' clothing preferably without panties. i'm to wear my 'Uniform' to work, and it's up to me whether i wear panties with it or not.
30) When i arrive home i'm to change into the outfit my Mistress chose for me in the morning, or to strip off and put on my slave attire. If my Mistress is in the house or entered with me, i will ask Her permission to go and get changed, otherwise this should be the first thing i do on entering the house.
31) i must remove all of my clothing in the way i've been taught when my Mistress commands of me to do so. When i remove clothing it must be folded neatly and placed in front of me just ahead of my feet or my knees. i'm to always be naked in bed, except when i must wear a specific outfit.
32) i must always keep the bathroom door fully open when i'm in there. If my Mistress enters the bathroom whilst i'm using it, i must continue with what i'm doing without feeling ashamed. Nothing about my body is to be hidden from Her, including toilet functions. i must ensure She has an unrestricted view of my actions.
33) i must take a shower every morning, but when i do so i must not take too long. i'm to remember that the shower isn't for my pleasure or indulgence, but to keep my body clean for my Mistress. If i take too long i'll be disciplined. To remind me of this: when i have finished washing i must rinse my entire body with only cold water for 1 minute on my back, 1 minute on my front and 1 minute on my pussy and ass. i'm not to try to cover my body with my arms and hands during this or thereafter. i must then present myself to my Mistress and may be required to be inspected. i must wait for permission to dry myself.
34) My hair should be washed 3 times a week, in the evenings so it will have enough time to dry properly. i'm allowed to request a bath or shower in the evening or i may be instructed to take one by my Mistress. i'm permitted to take longer in the bath than in the shower, because this is my opportunity to relax and unwind. i'm only to use products selected for me by my Mistress, to ensure that my skin is soft and smooth and i smell pleasing to Her. i must use Vitamin E cream on any areas of my body which are healing, in order to promote this process.
35) My pussy, legs, and underarms must be kept completely shaved and smooth so that nothing of me is hidden from view. My pussy and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good aroma at all times. i'm required to shave my legs and underarms at least twice a week, but my Mistress will shave my pussy Herself on Wednesday and Sunday evenings, unless other arrangements necessitate alternative times to be allocated. i'm to assume the "Vaginal Inspection" position on a chair in the bathroom and stay completely still while She shaves me, then i'll be rinsed with cold water in the shower. i should apply moisturising body lotion to my pussy and underarms daily, in order to keep them smooth and free from irritation.
36) i must always remember how pleased my Mistress is when i think of myself as sexy and showing off my assets. My behaviour must always display a sexual content however subtle. When i walk, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak or listen, i'll do so in a manner pleasing to my Mistress, with confidence and pride. i'll try to be as graceful and alluring as possible when moving and in positions, so my Mistress obtains pleasure from looking at me.
37) i'll make eye contact with my Mistress when speaking or when my Mistress speaks to me, for my eyes are a gift only for my Mistress, not to be given to the floor or anyone else. i'll also give Her eye contact when i laugh or smile, to make it clear i'm not laughing at Her. When i'm confused or asking a question, i'm to tilt my head to one side.
38) i'm not to cross my arms or legs, clench my hands closed, firmly shut my mouth or slouch in the house.
39) When kneeling to present an object to my Mistress, i must bow my head and raise both arms above my head, palms flat facing upwards and wait until She takes the offered object. In the case of any punishment tool, i must kiss it before offering to Her.
40) i must always sit on the floor next to my Mistress, unless given specific permission to sit on the sofa with Her or on my chair at the dining table. If sitting on the floor, i'll sit with my legs bent to one side, with my hands either side of me; when told to assume the "Rest Position" i'm permitted to sit in any way which is comfortable for me, so long as i don't obstruct my Mistress' view of my body. When sitting on a chair i'll sit up straight with my legs slightly apart and my palms face-up on the top of my thighs. When given permission to sit on the sofa with my Mistress i'm not expected to sit as i do on a chair normally, but am allowed to snuggle up with Her or sit over Her lap.
41) i'll learn all the positions my Mistress wants to teach me to the best of my abilities, will be prepared to take such positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that She, and others who may be present, will find most pleasing. i know that by using the slave positions i'm enabling my Mistress to better manage and use me. i must ensure that i'm never physically above my Mistress, such as standing when She's sitting or crawling across Her in bed, unless She has specifically instructed me to be.
42) When possible i'll place myself on my Mistress' left side while sitting at Her feet. i won't walk in front of my Mistress unless directed to do so. When walking i'll "Heel" or "Follow" to my Mistress' left side.
43) i'm to move into each position in a controlled, graceful manner, being aware of how i look to my Mistress. i'm to remain in each position until given other instruction.
44) i'm to close my legs during all positions whilst on my period, to indicate to my Mistress that my pussy is unavailable at that time. If told to "Present" to another Dom(me), i must place my hands palm-down on my thighs to indicate that my pussy and ass are not available for Their sexual use.
45) At the moment, the main positions i'm required to practice are: "Present", "Display", "Inspection" (breasts, vagina, anus, mouth), "Kneel up", "Surrender", "Rest position", "Spank Position", "Whip Position", "Follow", "Heel", "Open", "Kneel Forward", "Kneel Back" and "Supine". My Mistress will add to these positions as She sees fit. i'm to remember that the position for "Present" when ordered by my Mistress is different to that required when greeting Her or entering a room etc.
46) The "Safeword" given to me by my Mistress can be spoken at any time, even when i've been told to be silent. If i'm not able to verbalize it my Mistress will show me how i can express it. My Mistress doesn't see a "Safeword" as a limitation of Her authority, but as a means to ensure my safety. Because i'm granted a "Safeword" i'm expected to correctly use it. i can be punished if i attempt to use it to control or set limits on my Mistress' authority. It's a safety device only. If i'm gagged or otherwise unable to verbalize my Safeword, i'm required to use the "Two Grunts" method; to call it i'll grunt loudly twice in quick succession, repeatedly.
47) My Safeword is "R...". My Mistress will always stop immediately when i say this word. i may also if getting close to my limits say "Y...". My Mistress is under no obligation to stop at the "Y..." warning, but will judge how to use the information. She may choose to ease off or change activities, but this is solely up to Her. My Mistress will use the "Two Squeezes" method with me during scenes, when i'll find it difficult or distracting to reply to Her verbally - She'll take my hand and squeeze it twice to mean "Are you OK?", i'm expected to respond by squeezing Her hand twice to communicate "Yes my Lady, i'm OK". If my Mistress doesn't feel me return the squeezes after 2 attempts, She will stop the scene to check my well-being more thoroughly.
48) My Mistress will never expect me to have another W/woman's strapon in my pussy or ass, but She may ask me to be used by other Dom(mes), play with other slaves, serve at parties etc. i'm allowed to refuse these requests if i feel uncomfortable about what's being required of me.
49) i'll work on building up my tolerances to the level my Mistress needs me to have, being careful not to push myself further or faster than i'm ready to endure for Her, so that i may be able to expand my limitations. i'm aware that my Mistress will gradually challenge and push my limits, but only in specified sessions and after discussing with my Mistress exactly what's to happen.
50) For the time being my limits are: c***dren, a****ls, s**t, spitting and nettles. i'm allowed to add to these limits if necessary, for example if i experience something new and it causes a significant problem for me.
51) i'll endure whatever discipline or punishment my Mistress gives me, so i can become a better slave for Her. Details of all disciplines and punishments will be kept in a "Learning Folder" to serve as a reminder; a list of all items in the "Learning Folder" and all punishments received, will be kept on my journal.
52) i'll be disciplined if my Mistress feels i haven't done a task to the best of my ability or for additional matters which arise outside of the rules. Discipline won't be as painful as a punishment, but it will serve to remind me to try harder in the future. Being disciplined during daytime doesn't prevent me from sleeping in my Mistress' bed at night.
53) i'll be punished for breaking any of the rules set out here, any additional rules my Mistress may later impose, or for wilfully disobeying Her. i can expect punishments to be very harsh and very painful, but i'm assured of my Mistress' forgiveness as soon as i have endured the punishment allocated. i'm not allowed to sleep in my Mistress' bed on days it has been necessary to punish me, instead i'm to sleep on a mattress on the floor with my wrist cuffs tied to the leg of Her bed.
54) i'll thank my Mistress for the discipline and punishments i receive, specifying what i received and expressing the reason as to why i was given them.
55) My Safeword, verbal or otherwise, can't be used when i'm being punished. i must remember that punishment could never be very effective if i were able to control it. i must take it in full measure so that i'll focus on the correction of my behaviour for the long term. However, "Safewords" can be used when i'm being disciplined. My Mistress will let me know when the time has come that such treatment is necessary to correct my behaviour.
56) i'm responsible for keeping all my Mistress' equipment, tools and toys clean, tidy and in the correct places for when She next requires to use them. This rule includes my responsibility for keeping my Mistress' whips and canes in good condition.
57) i'll never touch my breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys in any manner where I could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without my Mistress' permission. Doing so will lead to a punishment.
58) i must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Mistress; i'm no longer allowed to ask permission to cum, but i must wait until my Mistress tells me to cum and then cum as quickly and hard as i can for Her. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that i don't take advantage of it. Failure to receive permission before cumming will cause me to endure a punishment my Mistress will put upon me. I'm permitted to cum whilst "Training".
59) My pussy, ass, and mouth will be used as my Mistress wishes for Her pleasure. i'll work hard to provide complete pleasure for Her.
60) My entire body, mind and soul now belong to my Mistress. i'm a pet slave and i must be available for Her use at all times. It's my Mistress' choice as to how my body will be used to please Her and i fully acknowledge that i no longer have ownership of my being.
By slave alex, SLRN 203-826-459
10 years ago
