Jealousy

I have a question for any of you who care to answer. I just want to know your opinion. Okay, my bf completely knows about this page and is actually the one who takes many of the photos that you see. You probably can't imagine how many pm's comments and friend requests I get daily. My bf does not get jealous at all. He actually encourages me to do more (at times). He hopes that I find the girl that I have been looking for, but also says that if I see, chat with, pm with or even meet with a man that I meet on here that he would not mind at all. His thing is, "If that's what you want do it if it will make you happy". I don't have a desire to hook up with guys, but why is he so open with me? Does he not care about me? Is he cheating on me? Why would he offer me up? His words are, "I trust you completely, but if you want to do anything, I want you to do it. I don't want to be the guy who holds you back from fulfilling any desire you have". INCLUDING MEN. IS HE CRAZY! What if some super handsome, wealthy, generous, sexy, big dick, fitness body, hunk of a man takes me and fucks me until I see hearts and stars floating above my head??? I don't get it. It makes me think that he wants to be with other women and he's up to something. When you read this (you know who you are), know that I am watching you. But to my friends, What do you think is his angle?

Published by mscandypanties

10 years ago

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LeslieLesbianLover 7 months ago

some guys are like that from what I understand

Oldwood-1 3 years ago

i have a feeling that he has complete faith in you not actually wanting another man . he is reaping all of the rewards of the excitement you get from some of our responses , plus he gets constant reaffirmation of how lucky he is to be with such a special woman . now if you did have another man like the one you described it would probably crush him . he would feel like he would have to take a subservient role or back away . i feel that either of you having an affair with someone of the opposite sex would cause big changes , probably not good .

cali_ni66a 9 years ago

There is no angle..that nigga a freak its just that simple

tryitonce68 10 years ago

Look have you ever had reason to not trust him?? Knowing the kind of sexual being you are he and how you have your fantasys he just doesn't want you to later on say you wished you had done this or that, also you may want to let him know that all you want is for your fantasy to remain as that fantasy.

Thickpaddy 10 years ago

to lv2lickaclit : Also agree with lv2, but not knowing either one of you, hard to give such an idealistic motive.

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Thickpaddy 10 years ago

At some point jealousy may enter the picture for him if the case you described came up, depending on how solid of a bond you two have . But, two things strike me about your man other than being fortunate and having great taste. He's confident enough to give you the freedom to express your desires on here. He is wise enough to realize that as downright gorgeous, sensual, and irresistible of a woman youare, IF xhamster is your only avenue(very big if) you utilize where you might find such a wordly man possessing so many qualities and goods, the chances of that happening are slim for you or any other woman as almost assuredly, a man with all that you describe is not on xhamster.

mscandypanties Publisher 10 years ago

to lv2lickaclit : Good answer. I think you nailed it.

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lv2lickaclit 10 years ago

did you ever think that he thinks jealousy is a pure waste of emotion?? and that his primary desire is to make you as happy as he can. and when you are totally happy he receives his satisfaction. Just a thought .........

gmann2020 10 years ago

I am the same way with my wife but I don't allow her to be with other men and doesn't desire another guy but I trust her so that if wants a woman then thats what she can have.....just as long as you give him the attention he needs he may not care or may want to join in on the fun which it may be something that you both would like to experience together

Stackedcutie 10 years ago

Two ways you can look at it. First, we both know how a guys mind can work sometimes, meaning he may just tell you that he is not jealous and he is OK with this because he thinks thats what you want to hear. On the other hand, he may just be totally comfortable, because he knows no matter how many comments, invites and sexual propersitions you get, he is the only guy who gets the goods :) Id try not to worry and enjoy it.

any22thing 10 years ago

i think he is in love and wants you to be happy, and you being happy makes him happy

gadget74 10 years ago

I dont think there is an angle. Thats the problem people have they always think people have alterior motives. Listen to what he is saying and not what you think hes saying.

FirmHose 10 years ago

To me he seems like a man who is secure in this relationship and feel that what ever you decide to do outside this relationship has no baring, by offering you this freedom to choose only shows he really loves you for who you are

007Max 10 years ago

He's just saying that to see where your head is trust me if u should ever agree to fuck a next guy that will be the end of everything.

iblookn49 10 years ago

Not all men that allow their wives or girl friends to have sex outside of the relationship have the desire to sleep with other women. Though I am not such a man, I do know of couples where the husband/boy friend is turned on by the thought of their partners having sex with another man. I am not talking about threesomes, I am talking just the wife/girl friend with another man. In most of these cases the male is perfectly faithful, but enjoy the thought of her being with another man. My thought is simple, what two consenting adults allow in their relationship is their business, as long they are both in agreement. If you are not comfortable with it, the don't do it! I myself wouldn't do it because it would bother my conscious.

pantybuyer 10 years ago

seems to me u great guy

_gojira_ 10 years ago

he just truly loves you and maybe has a different idea of relationships. In the end you could always find someone that makes you change your mind about your current relationship. and wether it happens or not is neither due to an official status between you two or some kind of fate, for how subconscious things are we choose and make efforts to stay in a relationship so he takes for granted that you are with him for a reason

mscandypanties Publisher 10 years ago

By the way. I don't feel like he does. I don't want him doing it to anyone but me.

thunder708 10 years ago

Maybe he really does care for you and doesn't have any ulterior motives? Some people gain extreme pleasure when they see that their partner is satisfied completely. He could be one of those people. I wouldn't jump to conclusions saying that he doesn't care or that he's cheating unless you have some concrete evidence.

kc_guy 10 years ago

"I don't get it. It makes me think that he wants to be with other women and he's up to something" I think your gut feeling may be right!