Some Days Are Just Stranger Than Most
Have you ever had one of those days?
You decide that you want to clean up your profile, get rid of the dead weight.
A normal day for me. I'm not one of those people that build "Dead Friend List's".
I'm sure you know the type that have hundreds, or thousand of profiles in their friends lists.
Anyone ever take a look at some of these list's?
There are profile's on a lot of these lists where the person that created the profile hasn't even been on for years, or even worse they've retired, and these people don't even bother to delete the dead profiles, but they keep them on their lists I guess to keep their numbers up. Like it was some kind of cool status symbol to have the most friends.
I don't facebook. Is that where such behavior is learned, nurtured, and applauded?
If people want to do that, go right ahead.
Who am I to judge what people do with their own profile's?
I'm not on the site to be a token number to someone who finds pride in how many people they can add to their list's, and keep them on there whether they've gone on to different sites, retired, or even worse, have died.
I'm here to meet, make friends, and enjoy myself by interacting with good people that hold similar interest's like mine on an ongoing daily, weekly, but no more than a monthly time period. If you don't come around, or reply to post's past a months time, then you're gone.
I get a lot of friend invites, and I haven't even been here that long now.
Maybe it's because I love making comments on video's, picture's, profile's, and cam rooms. I do this because I enjoy doing it. I don't do it to build an outrageous dead friends list. Yeah. I like it when someone replies, but I don't sit staring at my screen waiting for it. Who the hell does that?
This site has ten's of thousands of active users. I don't want to be friends with everybody. Nobody gets along with everybody they've ever met. That's a fact based in reality. Why put up a front like you do?
I'm polite, easy going, kinky as hell, and if I like what I see, read, or feel I will let someone know it.
So again. Yes I get plenty of friend requests, but I kindly turn them down unless I see something about them that I feel we can relate to, and have fun in doing it.
Rhyme, and Reason. Folk's.
So today I was going through my friends list revisiting the profiles, and Defriending those that have not interacted with me much at all, and as I've seen it today, there will be more gone soon enough because their time on my time is waning.
Then out of no where came this very strange, and highly insecure storm of bizarre rejection fueled PM's.
This first one was from someone that sent a friends request. The PM came almost immediately after I wrote on their wall that I was going to defriend them for obvious reasoning's, of which I pointed out, and in my usual polite manner.
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UN-Named, and now blocked:
But we speak to most of them daily if not weekly. But I understand if you no longer want us to be added to your friend list.
UN-Named, and now blocked:
You said: I'm sorry, but you are not attentive enough to your friends, and I'm going to Defriend you.
Having 7,000 friends is nothing to be proud of. It's a waste of time for people like myself that are only interested in friends that care enough to interact on a regular basis.
Our reply: Considering you have yet to say anything to us, How would you know we don't speak to anyone of the people that are on our friend list? . But as we said, we do understand if you no longer like our content or want us friends.
Tender_Heart:
You:
*You haven't even commented on any of our videos or pictures let alone made any contact with us.
I can say like wise.
When I'm on site I am a very busy person with many things to do, and if you are having issue's with me, about wanting to be your friend, then I'm sorry, but how is that my problem now?
Please respect my interest's.
UN-Named, and now blocked:
We don't have an issue with you. Why would we? We really don't leave comments on shared videos, we comment on personal content. Again, we never had any issue with you or your decision to remove us. Just the statement that was made about not being attentive. And by replying shows that we do pay attention.
Your interest's are respected.
Tender_Heart:
Thank You.
UN-Named, and now blocked:
The pleasure was all ours...
Cheers...!!!
Blocked
..................................................................................................
It should have ended after the first post, but the person kept coming back.
So I decided to click the button to put an end to the bullshit when I did cause I just knew it would've kept on going until I would have most likely had gotten one begging me to re-friend them.
Fucking Pathetic.
But it wasn't over yet. Ow, No. Another person with obvious major issues, that has never even been on my friends list, wanted a piece of me over someone else, that I, defriended from my profile list.
Who was also hell bent on wasting my time over something that had nothing to do with them directly, their first PM popped up just minutes after the other one was put to an end, by me, in my box.
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UN-Named, and now blocked:
how come you deleted my friend UN-Named, and now blocked as well because of this: from your list ?
Tender_Heart:
Read my "About Me".
UN-Named, and now blocked:
yes i read your profile. UN-Named, and now blocked as well because of this: is a cam model shes here to make money so am i this is our job im sorry she doesn't meet your expectations. as a friend i stay with her and look after her support her if i can i've known her for a year
Tender_Heart:
How is this my problem?
Tender_Heart:
If you looked at my profile you would have seen that I have many friends that are cam models.
Why are you making that an issue?
Did I write anything, any where, that I have issues with cam models?
No I have not, and no I do not, but you do, and I feel you need to work on that.
I sent you a friendly hello, and now you are making that into a messy situation that make's no sense.
What you do with your friends is entirely your business, and I ask that you begin to respect mine.
Blocked
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From the first one I saw the rejection issues, and I decided to clip the second one quicker, because I knew if I didn't that person would also have gone on with even more bullshit.
Look folk's, if you have rejection issue's, or what ever other mental health issue's,
get the fuck off the internet, and stop bothering us that are around that do not.
If I have only a few friends, good friends, that make me happy as I do for them as well, then I will still be tickled pink, and have a lot of fun here.
So if you're too stupid to understand my "About Me" portion of my profile then don't bother trying to be my friend. Cause being young, dumb, and full of cum is not what I'm looking for in online friends here.
Thanks.
Jim.
You decide that you want to clean up your profile, get rid of the dead weight.
A normal day for me. I'm not one of those people that build "Dead Friend List's".
I'm sure you know the type that have hundreds, or thousand of profiles in their friends lists.
Anyone ever take a look at some of these list's?
There are profile's on a lot of these lists where the person that created the profile hasn't even been on for years, or even worse they've retired, and these people don't even bother to delete the dead profiles, but they keep them on their lists I guess to keep their numbers up. Like it was some kind of cool status symbol to have the most friends.
I don't facebook. Is that where such behavior is learned, nurtured, and applauded?
If people want to do that, go right ahead.
Who am I to judge what people do with their own profile's?
I'm not on the site to be a token number to someone who finds pride in how many people they can add to their list's, and keep them on there whether they've gone on to different sites, retired, or even worse, have died.
I'm here to meet, make friends, and enjoy myself by interacting with good people that hold similar interest's like mine on an ongoing daily, weekly, but no more than a monthly time period. If you don't come around, or reply to post's past a months time, then you're gone.
I get a lot of friend invites, and I haven't even been here that long now.
Maybe it's because I love making comments on video's, picture's, profile's, and cam rooms. I do this because I enjoy doing it. I don't do it to build an outrageous dead friends list. Yeah. I like it when someone replies, but I don't sit staring at my screen waiting for it. Who the hell does that?
This site has ten's of thousands of active users. I don't want to be friends with everybody. Nobody gets along with everybody they've ever met. That's a fact based in reality. Why put up a front like you do?
I'm polite, easy going, kinky as hell, and if I like what I see, read, or feel I will let someone know it.
So again. Yes I get plenty of friend requests, but I kindly turn them down unless I see something about them that I feel we can relate to, and have fun in doing it.
Rhyme, and Reason. Folk's.
So today I was going through my friends list revisiting the profiles, and Defriending those that have not interacted with me much at all, and as I've seen it today, there will be more gone soon enough because their time on my time is waning.
Then out of no where came this very strange, and highly insecure storm of bizarre rejection fueled PM's.
This first one was from someone that sent a friends request. The PM came almost immediately after I wrote on their wall that I was going to defriend them for obvious reasoning's, of which I pointed out, and in my usual polite manner.
..................................................................................................
UN-Named, and now blocked:
But we speak to most of them daily if not weekly. But I understand if you no longer want us to be added to your friend list.
UN-Named, and now blocked:
You said: I'm sorry, but you are not attentive enough to your friends, and I'm going to Defriend you.
Having 7,000 friends is nothing to be proud of. It's a waste of time for people like myself that are only interested in friends that care enough to interact on a regular basis.
Our reply: Considering you have yet to say anything to us, How would you know we don't speak to anyone of the people that are on our friend list? . But as we said, we do understand if you no longer like our content or want us friends.
Tender_Heart:
You:
*You haven't even commented on any of our videos or pictures let alone made any contact with us.
I can say like wise.
When I'm on site I am a very busy person with many things to do, and if you are having issue's with me, about wanting to be your friend, then I'm sorry, but how is that my problem now?
Please respect my interest's.
UN-Named, and now blocked:
We don't have an issue with you. Why would we? We really don't leave comments on shared videos, we comment on personal content. Again, we never had any issue with you or your decision to remove us. Just the statement that was made about not being attentive. And by replying shows that we do pay attention.
Your interest's are respected.
Tender_Heart:
Thank You.
UN-Named, and now blocked:
The pleasure was all ours...
Cheers...!!!
Blocked
..................................................................................................
It should have ended after the first post, but the person kept coming back.
So I decided to click the button to put an end to the bullshit when I did cause I just knew it would've kept on going until I would have most likely had gotten one begging me to re-friend them.
Fucking Pathetic.
But it wasn't over yet. Ow, No. Another person with obvious major issues, that has never even been on my friends list, wanted a piece of me over someone else, that I, defriended from my profile list.
Who was also hell bent on wasting my time over something that had nothing to do with them directly, their first PM popped up just minutes after the other one was put to an end, by me, in my box.
..................................................................................................
UN-Named, and now blocked:
how come you deleted my friend UN-Named, and now blocked as well because of this: from your list ?
Tender_Heart:
Read my "About Me".
UN-Named, and now blocked:
yes i read your profile. UN-Named, and now blocked as well because of this: is a cam model shes here to make money so am i this is our job im sorry she doesn't meet your expectations. as a friend i stay with her and look after her support her if i can i've known her for a year
Tender_Heart:
How is this my problem?
Tender_Heart:
If you looked at my profile you would have seen that I have many friends that are cam models.
Why are you making that an issue?
Did I write anything, any where, that I have issues with cam models?
No I have not, and no I do not, but you do, and I feel you need to work on that.
I sent you a friendly hello, and now you are making that into a messy situation that make's no sense.
What you do with your friends is entirely your business, and I ask that you begin to respect mine.
Blocked
..................................................................................................
From the first one I saw the rejection issues, and I decided to clip the second one quicker, because I knew if I didn't that person would also have gone on with even more bullshit.
Look folk's, if you have rejection issue's, or what ever other mental health issue's,
get the fuck off the internet, and stop bothering us that are around that do not.
If I have only a few friends, good friends, that make me happy as I do for them as well, then I will still be tickled pink, and have a lot of fun here.
So if you're too stupid to understand my "About Me" portion of my profile then don't bother trying to be my friend. Cause being young, dumb, and full of cum is not what I'm looking for in online friends here.
Thanks.
Jim.
10 years ago
