Ladies, what drives you?

Out of interest (and by no means am I asking this question out of some narcissistic perverted point of view) but I'm genuinely interested in hearing your thoughts on this Ladies...

What drives you?
What fires up your passion?
What gets your toes curling & shallows your breath?
What makes it so you can't sit still & concentrate?
What gets you so moist you feel you just can't contain yourself?

And with this question, I'm not asking about images or videos... I'm really asking about everyday life?
Is it a man's voice? His smell? His touch? Does it go much deeper then this?
Or Is it simply the idea of the above mentioned? After all, the imagination can be a powerful thing...

I mainly ask this question because (lets face it) the "average" man doesn't need much encouragement when it comes to his driving force.
Must of them are just horny devils that can pop at the drop of a hat.
But you Ladies are much more sensual creatures...
I'd just be intrigued regarding your thoughts on this question?

Published by luxferremorningstar

9 years ago

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MrsAnaC 9 years ago

(PART 2) posts are limited to 3000 characters ! Oh the struggle lol! Continuing though... As I was saying, the way a man talks (his voice) and the way he uses those words.. oh it can do wonders @_@ Same as women moan, it says something about them, that's why dirty talk is usually a great turn on for most people :D To sum up though -- Timing is actually everything. Any of the above "physical" or "mental" factors could be present, but if it's presented to me at the wrong time, it would still go nowhere and there's nothing sadder than wasted potential :( Advice to any male readers.. hmm. be different. Different from the crowd of wherever you are. Find something that shows yourself and that you enjoy. and being happy/content with that, women will notice. Eventually someone who likes.. sports for example, will show up :) Orrr... if you're a pervert. Okay we all are inside, deep down, but don't flaunt the hell out of that, not only is it off putting (to most people) but it's also dull. be a smart pervert, plan limit and effectively share your affinities :D best advice LOL!

MrsAnaC 9 years ago

I've +faved this post to remember to reply later :) Very good question, I've gotta say that you're right, men either not care enough to know what drives A woman, let alone THE women around them. 5 questions. hmmm. Now to try to put this in a coherent setting! What drives me is a man who makes me want to close my eyes and picture any and all dirty things I'd want to share with him. How that idea starts, that depends. On how I feel at a given time, on how they present themselves (I don't mean fancy watch or expensive suit, I mean someone who effectively exudes the fact they're happy in their own skin, confident NOT cocky), on how they show they want me for more than what my physical being can offer them. It can start from a scent (like there is at least one cologne I know I cannot resist @_@) - doesn't mean I'll jump on a hobo who wears it just because, but it adds desire. It's all subjective, sure, but it's a start. It can start from the way he looks at me (usually does this way) - in a way that I just can't help but feel addicted, caught in his glance of me, like I want to live in the way he sees me, rather than how I see myself. I don't mean men just whistling after me on the street. It has happened twice maybe. Did it make me smile? Sure. Does it make me want to turn and talk to who did so? No lol. It's someone who shows me that I can feel confident and good about myself too that does it for me. It can start from something in common, sexual or not. Funny jokes, conversation, such things that are shared in mundane everyday conversations that stack up. This is a dangerous path though; because whether you like it or not, as a woman, you start to get some feelings for someone you feel you have lots in common with. To me personally it's very important. The nicest, most attractive, most everything man in the world could be at my feet, but "getting along" is something I couldn't compromise on. From the way we both want sex, to the things we enjoy in our spare time.. It's so nice to have someone that you can actually talk, communicate to, about almost anything :) Now, based on these 3 "premises" to my "perception of affection" - I'm going to add the boom moment. If at least two of these, or HELL forbid all three come to be together in one man... well shit... My mind literally says "oh shit" because I find myself thinking about them, when I wake or when I'm trying to sleep, when I'm horny or just doing random daily life things. I find myself wanting them beside me, when I shower, when I'm horny, when I'm lonely, and most of all when I'm happy. I find myself craving, their presence, in any and all forms. That's how you know someone actually likes you. They think about you, more than a normal "once a day thought" may happen and due to that, eventually they'll say it like "Oh I wish you would have joined me when I went to do w.e" more than the sexual desires alone. I am in no means saying that, the touch or the voice of a man aren't important. (PART 1)