I'm confused

So here's the deal.

My fiance, whom I love very much, isn't quite the Dom I hoped he'd be! In the bedroom things are great, and he constantly takes the lead, and surprises me with wonderful new ways of torturing, teasing, and tormenting me, all because he wants to. In "normal" life though, things are sadly lacking.

I'm constantly making all of the decisions, and don't seem to be serving him at all. I just don't get it! He promised me the life I needed, now, it seems, yet another Dom is failing to deliver!!

Now, I have had a friend in another country for about 6 years. I worship the ground he walks on. He is a Dom, and I know that he will give me exactly what I need, in fact he has asked me to go and be with him many, many times. That both makes my heart sing, and scares the living daylights out of me.

If I go to him, not only do I break the heart of a man I adore (but I'm not sure if we can have a life together), but I also leave everything I know behind me. They even speak a different language.

What would you do in my situation?

Published by slave_ariana

9 years ago

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alpawolf 8 years ago

You really do need a man that will keep you in your place 24 7 and show you how to surve at all times.

massload 9 years ago

Sometimes, you just have to risk it all!

xenes 9 years ago

You have to wait, time will tell The situation you are is not a simple one, just be patient and talk to the person your heart feels more close

slave_ariana Publisher 9 years ago

to Azmodaz : Well, the fiance has now been kicked in to touch. However, I still feel that I want to stay close to my family. But yes, I do need a proper Dom/Owner.

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Azmodaz 9 years ago

You are in need of a proper owner

Ariana, it is not really your decision. If your new Dom orders you to go and be his slave you don't have any choice in the matter. Mind, you should tell him clearly that you are willing to be his lifestyle slave. Your present man will only ever be role play, he sounds an indecisive type which is why it comes out in the safe area of the bedroom.

slave_ariana Publisher 9 years ago

to frankestine : I guess I'll figure it out somehow Frankie.

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frankestine 9 years ago

aw i am sorry i wish i could help. i'd be pretty confused on what to do if i were you too