Girl power

does anyone knows what it takes to find a confident woman one that it's not afraid to talk in here?

i understand that,for example,the big majority of girls that are into bbc are not interested in less well endowed white guys.. but why there's no women interested on at least talk about their likes to a man that really wants to know about it?
there are tons of topics where i would love to ear a woman point of view..

this site could be a really good place to express your opinions and views with others,to talk with strangers openly about everything you want..
since most of the people in here dont use their real names there would be no judgement..so why that's nearly impossible?

i can't belive that's so hard in here
am i the only one that would love to find someone to talk to?