My GF aknowledged my Bisexuality

As you may know if you have speak to me is that my GF is definitely not into sex...
Something really weird happened during the vacations.
It kind of begin a couple of weeks ago, I don't remenber why but we were speaking of homosexuality, and she said to me that she was definitely ok with homosexuality, and even that her could have made her life with a lady if she had found the right one. She immediately added that on the sexual chapter it would have not been easy thou. She then asked me if I could have pictured myself living with a man. I answered that no, I would miss the lady parts... but after a couple of seconds I added that I wish I had experienced sex with a man. She didn't really react, it looked like she already know.

A couple of days later she was suffering from a pretty bad case of constipation. As we were just finished having sex (it was a really long time !) and lying naked, I told her as a (bad) joke :
- "Maybe if you let me take you from behind that could help !" !
She then answered :
- "If you really want to do that, do it with a man".
I was astonished !
- "really ?! " I said.
- " I know you won't fall in love with a man, so if you want to try that, do it with a guy"... "better in a guy that in me" she added with a smile. "Just put a condom on, and wash your dick afterward" (it was the first time she said a word like dick )
- "...What if I'm the one who want a dick in me ?..."
- "Then same answer, I don't have what it takes to do that"

I couldn't believe what I heard ! I will try to speak of her on that later.
If I had her benediction to do that my sex life would be perfect !

Published by soumis_cub

7 years ago

Comments

austinjames2813 4 years ago

This is going to be very, in your face, but I have been here. Do you know anything from her past. What she was taught/told; anything. Sounds to me like she was very sheltered and told only bad things come from sex, it's a mortal sin, for any reason other than procreating. Or she was so badly abused as a child. That whole only being allowed 5-8cm sounds like abuse from more than one adult. Possibly even with females around. As in the Hymen is somewhere just beyond the 8cm, maybe 10 cm so , 'abused' but keeping virginity intact. And people like that would also make her future of getting any sort of pleasure from sex and intimacy something that actually is a turn on for them. As in these people could still be in her life and could really have some sort of sadistic fetish, knowing and seeing the 2 of you. On another note, she says she can't do you from behind,,, throw her a strap on. It couldn't hurt (depending on the size). Then again if by chance this was relatives that abused her physically, and possibly mind fucked her. Well I have heard of this,,,, run, run far and fast. Because that whole, 'i I can't do that for you....' is possibly bait for you asking to become her bitch; or worse. I know what it's like to be a sex slave. And I don't mean the choosing to be kind in a BDSM relationship. Sure at first it might seem that way. The sex is great, she brings her female friends over and you are having 3,4,5somes and more. Then you are tied to the bed and told to keep it hard for 48+ hours and you have your owner riding that erection while her female friends are using your face. Until they flip you over in and spit roast you until you do have a body quaking orgasm. Into a dog dish that they squirted and urinated in. So really, are you in love with her, or are you thinking you can fix her. Sorry to be so harsh, and tmi but again sometimes for whatever reason, if it started with her as a child and it is family. It is a long, sick, and twisted reality that is getting them off. I hope she doesn't have siblings. Sorry tell me to fuck off if you want. But I am just starting to understand some of the crap I was put through.

Fastestguy 7 years ago

Sounds like you have a tough cookie on your hands... I bet you are missing something. you probably overseen her needs or desires. I've been in your shoes with my ex. Only after I let her catch me cheating on her she started to say well why don't you want to do all that with me... by then I didn't want to. Talking to each other is the key!

Mec_Bisex_77 7 years ago

Ca semblais comme une blague de sa part ou une véritable approbation ?