Could this be the reason Xhamster works so well?

I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I,
and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.

(Fritz Perls, "Gestalt Therapy Verbatim", 1969)

Published by Chartless

7 years ago

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Chartless Publisher 6 years ago

to nearnormal : The Psychologist or what ever he was the first to break with the tradition that everyone had to fit like a round peg into a round hole that there were squares, triangles, oval, rectangles, all sorts of differences in our humanity to deal with it and stop trying to force everyone into the same hole.

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to Chartless : Thank you for sharing the behind the scenes. It's simple, yet brilliant!

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Chartless Publisher 6 years ago

to nearnormal : In 1969 I was 15 in high school when the teacher in Sociology class wrote that on the board then discussed what makes us different and what makes us the same.

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yes

robert194811 7 years ago

well said

Chartless Publisher 7 years ago

to JustSomeGuyYouKnow : I have an opinion on the harassment and trolling, That when you let the bastards or bitches (IE trolls) bother you then you let poor excuses of something called human with brains the size of amebas win! I have been trolled and found the best way to win is to keep smiling, thus keeping your buttons from being pushed. Then the trolls loose their ability to bother anyone!

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WHEN it works well, this is certainly the case, but if you are trans or a woman of color, you are rarely 'left to do your own thing'. As a matter of casual observation, I've been sorry to see a number of people chased off this site by harassment and trolling.