"Porn Addiction" Propoganda
The word "porn" is no longer just used in reference to content of a sexual nature. Thanks to the internet we now have info porn, fear porn, etc... Reading articles/watching clips exposing the illuminati, do-it-yourself hacks to save money, or just plain gossip can be quite entertaining and educational as long as you don't trust EVERYTHING you see on the internet. I even found myself on an info porn binge reading about addiction to sexual porn and to be honest could not find one tangible fact that it even exists beyond one person's opinion to another. One doctor even claimed that by clicking so many different pics or videos the pleasure sensors in our brain become weary and that we require more extreme content to continue to enjoy it. Others say it ruins Love and damages relationships, giving us unhealthy and unrealistic expectations of sex. One video I watched was a man that reminded me so much of Mr. Darcy from married with c***dren and all i could think was the only reason this guy is making a stink about porn is to please his feminist wife (not even going to get into my question as to why a feminist would have such a nice looking man...some shoes just don't fit the other foot the same do they). OK so if what this doctor says is true do we have pleasure sensors in our brains that are only active when viewing naked people? No we don't, they are the same pleasure sensors that are active when you are watching football, browsing facebook, and enjoying Bible study. This I would refer to as fascination not addiction. It's perfectly ok for a person to spend hours and hours watching sports. You don't hear the term sports addict but anyone who looks at porn on a daily basis is a porn addict? Unrealistic expectations of sex....give me a break! I watched porn long before I had sexual contact with anyone and if that affected me in any way I would say made me more prepared and educated about sex. Thanks to internet porn we are not limited to models in magazines but actually see "real" people in real settings. The reason sites are broken down into certain categories is b/c those are the most commonly searched words. How many sites have a BBW or small tits category? How many sites have a "perfect 10 that makes your husband love you less" category? Porn exposes you to a variety, perhaps even open your eyes to something you normally wouldn't have been attracted to or it can also show you something you'd rather not actually do, in which case, save you from having an unpleasant experience. My point being, if you have a self esteem problem perhaps you should address it. Saying porn warped your husband's mind and he doesn't find you attractive anymore shows your lack of thinking....especially if you have ever written an article about porn addiction. If you feel compelled to nag at people you don't know about what they do behind closed doors while they are all alone, then I am quite positive your husband has heard enough nagging to not want to get physically intimate with you. I think many women have an unrealistic view of relationships thanks to Matthew Maconohay and Ashton Kutcher in their library of chick flicks. I had an unrealistic view of 2015 thanks to Micheal J. Fox and Christopher Lloyd. I still have an unrealistic view of Bengazi and 9-11 thanks to CNN and Fox News. There is one consistency that I have seen on the screen as well as with my own eyes so the expectation and reality were the same. The wee wee goes into the va-jay-jay. You aren't an addict and there's nothing wrong with you for liking porn. There's worse things you could be doing with your time like complaining and writing articles about how people are addicted to breathing and sleeping I'm done
7 years ago