Cock size
[This is written from a heterosexual perspective, but it also applies to gay and bi people]
Sometimes people go into denial mode. They say that cock size doesn't matter. And often they come out with some overused saying like "It's not the size of the boat..." Let's be honest though: size is important in many cases.
Too big for someone and it'll be painful. Too small and they won't be felt as much. Ideally, cock size and pussy size need to be matched up. In fact, the Kama Sutra mentioned this thousands of years ago.
At the same time, there are people who go to the other extreme and say that size is the be all and end all. But there are exceptions. Did you know that women can have orgasms from just phone sex, without even touching themselves? You can get someone off with just your voice. Because really, sex is something that happens in the brain. Although there's lots of nuances to this...Anyway, I digress. That's is a story for another
An important question is this: what exactly is it that makes a dick big? Usually when people say "Oh, he has a big dick" most people automatically think of length. But length is not the only factor. Girth is too. Think about it. You can have these size combinations at the extremes:
Short + thin
Short + thick
Long + thin
Long + thick
In terms of penis volume: a guy can be 9" long and 4.5" around, but actually have less cock by volume (remember your highschool mathematics!) than someone who is 5" long but 6.5" girth. Although the second guy may look smaller (because length is more noticeable to the eye than girth) a girl will potentially feel him touch her sides a lot more and stretch her pussy considerably because he's much thicker. Girth also gives the sensation of being pulled from the inside - big girth tugs on the hood of the clitoris a lot more. So short + thick can be considered big in a similar sense to long + thin, and perhaps moreso. But long + thick is undeniably huge!
Also, a significant factor is psychological stimulation. Frankly, I think big penis penetration can be a massive turn on for guys as well as girls. The idea of a massive cock stretching out and stimulating every inch of a soft, wet pussy is incredibly arousing! Nothing is more of a turn on than seeing a girl uncontrollably moaning in ecstasy as a big dick penetrates her hard and fast.
Sometimes people go into denial mode. They say that cock size doesn't matter. And often they come out with some overused saying like "It's not the size of the boat..." Let's be honest though: size is important in many cases.
Too big for someone and it'll be painful. Too small and they won't be felt as much. Ideally, cock size and pussy size need to be matched up. In fact, the Kama Sutra mentioned this thousands of years ago.
At the same time, there are people who go to the other extreme and say that size is the be all and end all. But there are exceptions. Did you know that women can have orgasms from just phone sex, without even touching themselves? You can get someone off with just your voice. Because really, sex is something that happens in the brain. Although there's lots of nuances to this...Anyway, I digress. That's is a story for another
An important question is this: what exactly is it that makes a dick big? Usually when people say "Oh, he has a big dick" most people automatically think of length. But length is not the only factor. Girth is too. Think about it. You can have these size combinations at the extremes:
Short + thin
Short + thick
Long + thin
Long + thick
In terms of penis volume: a guy can be 9" long and 4.5" around, but actually have less cock by volume (remember your highschool mathematics!) than someone who is 5" long but 6.5" girth. Although the second guy may look smaller (because length is more noticeable to the eye than girth) a girl will potentially feel him touch her sides a lot more and stretch her pussy considerably because he's much thicker. Girth also gives the sensation of being pulled from the inside - big girth tugs on the hood of the clitoris a lot more. So short + thick can be considered big in a similar sense to long + thin, and perhaps moreso. But long + thick is undeniably huge!
Also, a significant factor is psychological stimulation. Frankly, I think big penis penetration can be a massive turn on for guys as well as girls. The idea of a massive cock stretching out and stimulating every inch of a soft, wet pussy is incredibly arousing! Nothing is more of a turn on than seeing a girl uncontrollably moaning in ecstasy as a big dick penetrates her hard and fast.
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