Quick question...

Ok, I've been getting quite a few new friend requests recently. A lot of them I'm more than happy to accept, but some less so. It's easy to decline the ones that are completely empty profiles with nothing but a downloaded avatar and maybe one or two comments, but how about the ones that actually have a person behind them? Is it socially acceptable to just bump a request that doesn't appeal or that I have nothing in common with, or is it more polite to leave a comment on their profile explaining myself?
Thank you, people of xhamster! xx
-S

Published by sarah_trans

7 years ago

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No content no add very easy and only dick pictures no thanks

keet_in_heels 4 years ago

No content no add no explanation. Dick pics no add. Hairy men no add. Men in genral no add my prefrence. Females no add most are fake. CD trans gurly boys or what ever probably yes. X

CD-TVnearVernon 6 years ago

I tend to reject friends if they have no content if they have been in here a while or some time. I will block anyone who has content that is not compatible with me and my content. I do not have any issues with an avatar missing as their compatibility is important. A full profile of them also helps a lot

Loveitall66 6 years ago

to heelssexy : I agree with you here, I always need to have some interests in common and like to feel they have some real interest in me, otherwise they can just subscribe to find my content

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btbwild 7 years ago

Go with your heart sweetie!! If anyone doesn't appeal or have anything in common with you I feel it's your right to do what ever you want, I look at it this way, there requesting a friend invite from you and like you said, if they or there profile or content just doesn't do it for you I would say there is no way you would be wrong in declining or not accepting there request at all!! That is pretty much what I do, but that doesn't matter. Just go with how you feel!! I hope this helped!!

gildasuffolk 7 years ago

I will only accept a freind request if they have something in common

RodanPolansky 7 years ago

If a person's profile has content that leaves me uninspired, is inconsistent with my interests, or is just plain AWFUL, I click on the "mark all as read" button and leave it as that. I feel no obligation to apologize for or explain my rationale for not embracing their world vision or lack of such. I will communicate with folks when I have something I want to convey, or if I want to mock their pathetic genitalia (just kidding).

ottmarweisshaupt 7 years ago

if they send you a pm or comment with the invite, you should write some words back. but if they just hit the button, without any pm or comment, click them away ;)

heelssexy 7 years ago

It's a tricky question that all depends on what you want out of being here. Some like to collect friends to get maximum exposure, the more you post the more will see and attract more views. If that's what you want. The easiest thing to do is put a disclaimer in your about me section. Stating who or the conditions of friend requests accepted. If it's obvious by what you requested has not been read, there's no need to say anything, just delete. Also it shows that they are not really interested in you as a person if they can't be bothered to read your profile. That narrows it down considerably :) I always feel a certain amount of interaction is needed, because if you have an open profile and they're not willing to interact, why be friends when they can just follow you.

loveallnylon 7 years ago

Generally speaking, I just don't accept if we have nothing in common, or they have little content or several thousand "friends"........but if they take the time to message me or comment on a few pics, then I usually politely say, thanks, but no thanks!

prince_12 7 years ago

I just do not accept.

sarge22 7 years ago

if it does not appeal a simple no thank you is always good

At some point I started to get a good amount of friend request on a daily basis. I started to only accept the ones that interested me in some way. Nothing wrong with being choosy here.... ; )

emmersonsprite 7 years ago

if the request does not appeal to you..... I probably reject 2 out of every 10 ....

funwatford 7 years ago

No, fuck 'em, if they can't be arsed to add any content why bother accepting ?

LawMac 7 years ago

On a selfish note if you are always leaving comments for those you don't feel anything in common with then you will have no time for yourself and to enjoy being the special girl you are for the rest of us x

creepyr 7 years ago

I'd say it also depends on your level of comfort