Bottom or slave

We are all men. We all have masculinity about us and the way We express sexuality. Some Men like Myself discovered Our Dominance over other men and thus are called SIRs. Other men find their gratification having a man fuck them. Are they any less a man than I am? NO! The concept of the Yin and the Yang state that with each part of masculinity and femininity there is a portion of the opposite. This is what cause the characteristics of aggression in women and nurturance in men. Accordingly, men who are attracted to men physically and emotional have a certain Yin and Yang. Masculinity can be expressed both as top and bottom. Some men flow back and forth between the two and find this superior to declaring themselves one or the other. On the other hand, it takes bravery and integrity to know yourself well enough to be true to your nature. A bottom is as masculine as a top and is to be admired for his realization of self.

Now let Us consider the men who know themselves to need more than being a bottom, boys. boys find themselves in need of more than just sexual gratification from being a bottom. they need to feel empowered by the Man they are with. His aggressiveness, His masculinity and His need to fuck them go deeper that boyfriend relationships.

As the relationship develops the boy may find himself able to locate a deeper need within himself to be owned (slave) by his Man and see Him as MASTER. If the SIR does not recognize the effort it takes to go within oneself and find this great need, then He is not the MASTER he is an SIR that has not tapped HIS own core needs.

I find the need to denigrate a boy at any point in his self-discovery process is a statement of His own insecurity.