What Makes a True Hotwife?
I see the comments often here on xHam: "She's not a hotwife, there's no wedding band," or "she's done some pro shoots, she's not a hotwife at all." But IMHO the most important criteria for whether a woman is a hotwife or not: if she's married, why she's doing it, and if Hubby digs it and supports it. The majority of the time, the pro-only women do it strictly for the money; if there wasn't money involved, they wouldn't be there. I've read several interviews with both porn stars and producer/directors, who admit that the supposed sexual pleasure is largely an act, and in fact a pro shoot is just about guaranteed to be a drudge (take after take, hour after hour, sometimes several days of performing for the camera way past the point where you're interested in sex anymore). If you've ever seen a behind-the-scenes look at a pro shoot, 9 out of 10 times the director is behind the cameraman waving his arms frantically trying to get the actress(es) to make more noise. For me, faked screams and arousal just doesn't cut it, and I find 90%+ of pro porn about as exciting as used kitty litter. Not all of it, mind you. I've got several favorite pro-only actresses who really seem to enjoy their work, but they're in a minority in my opinion. I read an interview with Madison Missina (200 films, 18 years in the biz): "It’s quite clinical ... and it’s completely void of what makes good sex good. There’s a lot of communication before we start filming, so the scenes are really good for the camera. It gets quite messy ... and it’s so painful. The worst sex I’ve ever had is on a porn set." Legendary producer/director David Christopher (Pussyman) compares old school porn with today's stuff: "Today’s group of directors and internet shooters could care less. It’s a product to them. The word ‘content’ is a perfect example of what they really think about shooting sexual material. They just need to fill material. That attitude spills over to the talent, agents and heads of companies. They care about the money and getting the scene done so it can be put up the next day on the internet." Sorry to burst folks' illusion bubbles about pro porn and pro actors, if they had any. But again -- there's a certain amount of stuff coming out of pro studios that I find hot, but I have to do a lot of seeking to find it. In contrast, hotwife/swinger couples do it because it's very close to, or maybe even is, a true parafilia -- a sexual fetish. They need to do this because this kind of nasty, taboo, sexual filth-pleasure is what gets both of them off. They'd be doing this no matter what. And for me, hotwife and swinger action is more of the Happy Hunting Ground for stuff that gets me off. It's primal, it's raw, and everybody's really, truly turned on and busting a nut.
I'd like to point out that many true hotwives (Janet Mason, Ami Charms, Tracy Licks, Elle Denay, etc. etc. etc.) have been recruited by pro studios because they've seen the women's homemade stuff and realize that they've got the real deal here. Just about the hottest thing I've ever seen Score do was a matchup between Tracy Licks and Jason Brown (I think it's Jason Brown at least; most of the view is taken up by black cock and white wife enthusiastically working on it, we don't see much of his face). Whether she's your cup of tea or not, you can tell this mama has handled more black dick (probably mostly off-camera) than 99.999% of the pro ladies out there, and this lucky young stud is going to get pussy-handled (and enjoyed greatly) by an experienced bull rider in heat. If Score did more stuff this good, they'd be getting a lot more of my money. Plus, I would imagine that it's a bit of a bragging point for Hubby to tell the rest of his local swing community that Wifey just did a shoot for Score and fucked the snot out of Jason Brown (and vice versa, to be sure), while he watched on-set. To me, a hotwife is a hotwife no matter if she's screwing in a sleazy, cheap motel room unrecorded or fucking under the lights in a studio for Score.
Some of the male stars also got their start in hotwife/swinger/amateur action and went on to pro-only stuff. An unknown Lexington Steele got noticed for a spectacular job he did in a gangbang hotwife vid with tasty little thing Kelly 38D. The vid was distributed via Lynn Carroll's tiny amateur-oriented production company that started out selling VHS tapes through ads in a swinger magazine she edited. Young Mr. Steele's huge cock and massive cum-plastering of Kelly's adorable little face made him an instant star. I've also seen Tony Eveready in a strictly amateur, obviously homemade hotwife vid, fucking Wifey on the poorly lit living room floor of the home. Cathy Craving (Creampie Cathy) has often recruited Hooks and D. Wise in her stuff, who appear in both pro and "lifestyle" shoots. They obviously greatly enjoy servicing the wives, maybe more than the Big Shoot pro ladies. I think some couples who can afford it occasionally hire working pro studs to play-for-pay because they've seen the guy's work, know he's probably a safe and dependably good cocksman, and Wifey really gets a hankering for that particular guy.
On another issue often mentioned, I've noticed that some true hotwives will wear that wedding band, and some won't. A lot of them probably don't think it's all that important, especially if Hubby is clearly in the room filming, participating, or watching. We know there's no doubt that the couple are in the lifestyle. Another reason might be that Wifey is left-handed and having a big chunky ring on one finger of that hand might be less than comfortable to her bulls when she's jacking them. This is just speculation on my part, but if any hotwives out there would like to chime in, I'd love to hear from them. I'm not sure I'd like a live ring-on test using myself as the test subject, however, as I bleed easily down there.
Another opinion I've encountered is that good production quality or distribution support make a video ineligible for consideration as true hotwife porn. If the quality is good, it's not truly amateur hotwife stuff, it is said. However, I should point out that even rank amateurs have had access to cameras and lighting equipment for several years now that are essentially just as good as the pro studios, or at least can deliver impressively good results. I've now got a 4K UHD camera that delivers video quality that the pro studios would have been jealous of a mere 10 years ago. My cost: $300 new at one of the major online camera dealers. Goodness, I've got a not-even-recent cell phone (a Samsung Galaxy Note 3, released in 2013) that does video with image and audio quality that blows away my old purpose-made video camera from 2005.
Please realize that I'm not directing criticism at the folks weighing in with these opinions; I just want to present my case that it's the motivation and marital situation rather than the production company that determines a hotwife. I'd be willing to bet that a few days/weeks after Mrs. Licks did her Score shoot, she and Hubby were probably hooking up locally with others in the lifestyle (they're in the Tampa area I believe), with Wifey taking on a whole roomful of black cock with no cameras present at all. The pro shoot was just a little bit of fun (and maybe cash) on the side. She sells her own vids, but her efforts most likely mirror Lynn Carroll's, where selling vids is a natural cottage-industry byproduct of a sexual lifestyle: raunchy group sex and the exhibitionistic thrill of letting others watch a married woman whoring her delicious self out to strange cock, with Hubby's enthusiastic approval.
And I love it.
I'd like to point out that many true hotwives (Janet Mason, Ami Charms, Tracy Licks, Elle Denay, etc. etc. etc.) have been recruited by pro studios because they've seen the women's homemade stuff and realize that they've got the real deal here. Just about the hottest thing I've ever seen Score do was a matchup between Tracy Licks and Jason Brown (I think it's Jason Brown at least; most of the view is taken up by black cock and white wife enthusiastically working on it, we don't see much of his face). Whether she's your cup of tea or not, you can tell this mama has handled more black dick (probably mostly off-camera) than 99.999% of the pro ladies out there, and this lucky young stud is going to get pussy-handled (and enjoyed greatly) by an experienced bull rider in heat. If Score did more stuff this good, they'd be getting a lot more of my money. Plus, I would imagine that it's a bit of a bragging point for Hubby to tell the rest of his local swing community that Wifey just did a shoot for Score and fucked the snot out of Jason Brown (and vice versa, to be sure), while he watched on-set. To me, a hotwife is a hotwife no matter if she's screwing in a sleazy, cheap motel room unrecorded or fucking under the lights in a studio for Score.
Some of the male stars also got their start in hotwife/swinger/amateur action and went on to pro-only stuff. An unknown Lexington Steele got noticed for a spectacular job he did in a gangbang hotwife vid with tasty little thing Kelly 38D. The vid was distributed via Lynn Carroll's tiny amateur-oriented production company that started out selling VHS tapes through ads in a swinger magazine she edited. Young Mr. Steele's huge cock and massive cum-plastering of Kelly's adorable little face made him an instant star. I've also seen Tony Eveready in a strictly amateur, obviously homemade hotwife vid, fucking Wifey on the poorly lit living room floor of the home. Cathy Craving (Creampie Cathy) has often recruited Hooks and D. Wise in her stuff, who appear in both pro and "lifestyle" shoots. They obviously greatly enjoy servicing the wives, maybe more than the Big Shoot pro ladies. I think some couples who can afford it occasionally hire working pro studs to play-for-pay because they've seen the guy's work, know he's probably a safe and dependably good cocksman, and Wifey really gets a hankering for that particular guy.
On another issue often mentioned, I've noticed that some true hotwives will wear that wedding band, and some won't. A lot of them probably don't think it's all that important, especially if Hubby is clearly in the room filming, participating, or watching. We know there's no doubt that the couple are in the lifestyle. Another reason might be that Wifey is left-handed and having a big chunky ring on one finger of that hand might be less than comfortable to her bulls when she's jacking them. This is just speculation on my part, but if any hotwives out there would like to chime in, I'd love to hear from them. I'm not sure I'd like a live ring-on test using myself as the test subject, however, as I bleed easily down there.
Another opinion I've encountered is that good production quality or distribution support make a video ineligible for consideration as true hotwife porn. If the quality is good, it's not truly amateur hotwife stuff, it is said. However, I should point out that even rank amateurs have had access to cameras and lighting equipment for several years now that are essentially just as good as the pro studios, or at least can deliver impressively good results. I've now got a 4K UHD camera that delivers video quality that the pro studios would have been jealous of a mere 10 years ago. My cost: $300 new at one of the major online camera dealers. Goodness, I've got a not-even-recent cell phone (a Samsung Galaxy Note 3, released in 2013) that does video with image and audio quality that blows away my old purpose-made video camera from 2005.
Please realize that I'm not directing criticism at the folks weighing in with these opinions; I just want to present my case that it's the motivation and marital situation rather than the production company that determines a hotwife. I'd be willing to bet that a few days/weeks after Mrs. Licks did her Score shoot, she and Hubby were probably hooking up locally with others in the lifestyle (they're in the Tampa area I believe), with Wifey taking on a whole roomful of black cock with no cameras present at all. The pro shoot was just a little bit of fun (and maybe cash) on the side. She sells her own vids, but her efforts most likely mirror Lynn Carroll's, where selling vids is a natural cottage-industry byproduct of a sexual lifestyle: raunchy group sex and the exhibitionistic thrill of letting others watch a married woman whoring her delicious self out to strange cock, with Hubby's enthusiastic approval.
And I love it.
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