HellcatM

You can ask me up to 5 questions and I will answer them honestly. Dare is to put this on your status.

First off I go between Agoura and Lancaster so if you live in surrounding areas of those cities, don't worry about distance.

I'm a Dom looking for kinky women for FwB, poly relationship, open relationship or monogamous (for the right kinky woman that isn't the jealous type).

I've always been into kink but more recently got into practicing BDSM and coming into my won as a Dom. I'm a caring Dom. One that doesn't mind being an ear to my sub and letting her speak openly when we're having conversations (a woman with a brain turns me on). Just don't take my being caring for not being strict. I may not be as strict as some Doms but I do demand respect. I'm also romantic when the time is right. I like cuddling and making out, giving head ribs and helping with chores when she's being a good girl. I also like cooking...especially cooking with someone.

I'm not looking for a slave, but if it comes to that point where she wants me to be her Master I'll think about it and come to terms that I think are fair to both of us. I don't want to be someone elses brain, I do like real conversations, and I like her to feel like she can come to me if she's having a bad day or has a question, that she can be open to me with also being respectful. I don't have a big ego, I will also respect her, but I am the Dominant so even though I'll take her suggestions into consideration, what I say goes.

My vanilla likes are:
Movies (sci-fi, fantasy, horror, action, comedy)
Music (rock, metal, industrial, classic rock, softer rock (ballads), punk, alternative and more).
TV (same as movies, but also hospital and court dramas and American Ninja Warrior, Shark Tank)
Food: All kinds
Drink: Craft beer, wine, some hard alcohol, decaf coffee, tea, decaf sodas, water, smoothies.

I don't take drugs or smoke, but its ok if you smoke pot or cigarettes, just not in my house or car.

I also like hiking, tennis, camping, walking, BBQ, video games, technology and more.

Kink I'm into:

Pulling hair, spanking, biting, light bondage, roleplay, oral (receiving and giving), anal (giving but not a must), fisting (giving but not a must), flogging, taking pictures and movies (with her consent of course), exhibitionism and playing without getting caught, teasing, light choking (with hand and cock), using toys and food, creampie's (pussy and anal), rough sex and more. I'm always looking to add to this list too.

Interests:

Candle wax, crops, switches, FFM threesomes, wireless vibrators in public, violet wand (not sure if I can afford one though).

Type of subs I'm looking for:

little girl, brat, mild to medium pain sub, slut, kitties, doggies (I'm not a furry, not interested in full blown furry but cute play).

Looking for short term or long, lust or love. I'm just open minded like that.

Ask me what ever you want. Before meeting I'm not your Dom, we're just two people getting to know each other. I like it that way because I want to get to know someone on a real, person to person level and its hard to do that when she sees you as a Dom. If you only want to be Dominated in bed, that's fine too, or just in the house.

Like I said I'm not looking to be someones brain, just be kinky and fun in bed and smart, loving, good person, good heart, sweet, and funny all the time.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Daddy/Mommy
98% Dominant
91% Brat tamer
88% Master/Mistress
84% Non-monogamist
82% Rigger
79% Owner
77% Primal (Hunter)
76% Exhibitionist
76% Experimentalist
65% Ageplayer
64% Degrader
48% Voyeur
37% Sadist
18% Vanilla
16% Switch
4% Girl/Boy
2% Submissive
1% Brat
1% Degradee
1% Pet
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Rope bunny
0% Masochist
0% Slave