One thing that I share in common with many other men, who to whatever extent enjoy hot times with other guys, is that I love gay saunas. It's such an amazing experience, from start to finish. There is so much excitement as you arrive and enter the building, casually pay the entrance fee and collect your towel and locker key. You know that anyone you see that's around as you make your way to the locker room is interested in other guys and is there for some type of horny fun, with so much variety as to what that horny fun might entail. In the locker room, you take off your clothes and feel your… Read more

I want to share my thoughts - my perspective - on tops, as a bottom. And of course, when I talk of tops and bottoms, I am referring to gay sexual relations between two men. Now, from a simplistic viewpoint, some may say that when two men are having sex, because they are of the same gender, they are 'the same'. But reality is far removed from this viewpoint, because in reality there will be a top and a bottom, and these two roles are (very) distinct from each other. So as a bottom, I want to share my thoughts on tops, and the roles of both tops and bottoms. The first thing to say is that to… Read more